[Jewels]

why cant others just let things b? why do they hafta twist our words around as if they THINK they know what we said when in fact they donno an really think that we r wrong an they are right...when in fact they could b leadin people down a road that isnt the right one at all...they pretend to be friends yet their biting comments prove to us that they dont care at ALL what we think or say...cuz we rnt right an they have a corner on what is truth an what isnt...well, they can kiss our butt cuz we r thinkin bout never talkin ta them again...an then they cant even confront us IN LOVE about things but just go behind our back an talk about us as if talkin ta us would be too much of a hardship on them...well...fine...they can do that...but dont expect us ta just go along with things an pretend things r ok when they aint...right now we r so hurt an mad that we donno which end is up...

((((((Jewels)))))))
i am sorry you are so hurt and angry.
was this something that happened at work? or a friend IRL?
take a minute to breathe.

[confuzzed]

Hey Jewels,
sorry you're having this problem. I'm with you - I don't understand why people say things that are hurtful/biting. But they do.
And it seems to me that this is becoming a "normal" thing. I've had "friends" do the same thing to me and I've felt as you do. At that point I cross them off my "friends" list because I feel life is too short to waste time with people who don't appreciate me. And as for people who talk behind my back, they're off my list too if they can't be mature enough to say things to my face.

Hang in there - there are other people in the world more worthwhile and you can find them.

[Jewels]

it wasn't either one...it was ppl online...ppl we thought we could trust an believe...guess it goes ta show cant trust ne body ne more...

just chalk it up ta experience we guess an let it go...life IS way too short ta let them getcha an mess with ur mind...an who really cares bout somethin that isnt true?

sometimes just wanna crawl inta a hole an bury ourselves cuz it seems nobody listens ne more...not like they usta...an its always our fault for somethin...never ne body elses...an like its always up ta us ta apologize...even when its them that should b doin the apologizin...whatever...seems so stupid ta think that people would b straight with ppl here...if u cant b real with ppl who u cant see y b real with ppl u CAN see?

LEAH

[silentandscared]

((((((((((((( Leah and all the Jewels)))))))))))))))))))))

we are so sorry that you are all hurting bad and that you have been lied to by others, it is the ultimate betrayal when all that is offered is in good faith. Know that this is more about them than you.

Take care of you all and stay safe
You know where we are if you should need us.............PM us if you need someone to talk to although l can imagine that it will be hard to trust anyone if you have been lied to

gentle hugs to you all( if ok ))

Mandyxxxx

[Fuzzybear]

((((((((((((((((( Leah and all the Jewels ))))))))))))))))

(((Leah & all the Jewels)))

I'm so sorry people are like that. We have run into that also. It is so hurtful and it makes you question reality. It can be crazymaking!
It's thier loss, not yours! If they hurt you , stay far away with people you can trust. Then there's the "trust" part.... sometimes that is so hard to do.
Please take good care and know that you DO have lots of friends here.

[Eriksplus]

We're having this problem as well.
Please take gentle care of yourselves.
(Webber)Erik

[Jewels]

we hadda friend pm us last night that helped us a lot...she donno bout our situation with the bd ppls but she helped us in general an she is such a good friend...we r glad we have her too as ona our bestest friends...an cuzza her our outlook is a bit different now...

(((Jewels)))

I hope you feel a bit better. It's great that a friend PM'd you to offer support.
Please believe we care.

[multipixie9]

Sadly, what you wrote is oh so familiar. I hate that this happened to you. We have been through similar hurts online. We've had someone be an enormously good friend and suddenly she verbally ripped me apart and it hurt so bad we had the first s.i. we've had since the early 90's. It's really hard, I still miss her, but I could never trust her again. Forgiveness is something that helps me get by when I'm hurt, but forgiveness and being open with someone again are two separate things. With some people I think things can heal, but with others it is not possible. Sorry you were hurt.

Pixies

[Jewels]

((((((((((((((((((all the pixies)))))))))))))))))))

I'm sorry for the pain that your friend caused you. Being able to forgive is a process, and is certainly not linked to being able to trust that person...and I am sure that you miss that person greatly...I will pray the pain of that schism will heal, and you will be able to go on and develop more friendships with others who you can trust.

((((((((((((((((Calista)))))))))))))))))))

thanks for the kudos...it sure helps having people understand what we are going through...

blessings and peace to both of you...

Jewels

[Fuzzybear]

((((((((((((((((( Jewels )))))))))))))))))