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Default May 07, 2005 at 07:59 PM
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how it PLEASED them and us when we learned how to cry like a grown up that little! cry silent not loud - so no one can hear and no one can be mad and you dont embarass yourselves!!!
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Default May 07, 2005 at 08:17 PM
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((((((((( KathyAnita ))))))))) safe hugs if ok. I do not know what else to say. We are here if needed.

Take care and stay safe.

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Default May 07, 2005 at 08:19 PM
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dont want "safe" it is NOT
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Default May 07, 2005 at 08:43 PM
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KathyAnita...what is the matter??

Are you ok??

pm me if you need or want to.

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Default May 07, 2005 at 08:52 PM
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it doesnt hurt it was never real its an imagination a lie
nothing FEELS so its ok
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Default May 07, 2005 at 09:10 PM
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ok ....but I am here if needed.

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kathyanita, i'm thinking of you tonight. pat
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Default May 07, 2005 at 10:31 PM
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spend your time like that and find the revenue is disappointing
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Default May 07, 2005 at 11:12 PM
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stay safe...I'll be sending positive energy your way.
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Default May 08, 2005 at 06:44 AM
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thanks yous guys
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Default May 09, 2005 at 04:31 AM
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DO want "safe"
. . .whistling in the dark. . .
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Default May 09, 2005 at 07:29 AM
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KathyAnita,

Is there anything we can do to help?

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Default May 09, 2005 at 08:30 AM
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parts are pulling for a greater devide- a wider split and darker definition. . . you know? that defensive will to NOT join and be whole in one mind? destructive part has something to prove by taking a stand against the body to assert a self that is powerfull enough to kill without feeling and hurt without pain
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Default May 09, 2005 at 12:53 PM
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Kathyanita,

I think I do know what you mean. They do not want to join together. Perhaps they are afraid to do this. Separate was the way to survive. The only way they know how. Maybe some don't understand that they can work together and still survive. They can work together and still be separate. The goal can be cooperation. You do not have to be single in the brain to be "normal" and happy. Does everybody there understand this? Does your T understand this?

I wish I could help with the destructive part. Maybe if we could find what this part feels needs to be proven the having to prove would stop.

Hoping you are safe. Keep whistling remembering I understand what you mean.

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Default May 11, 2005 at 06:56 PM
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<font color="purple">Hello. We have lots of that now too. I am jj and I am just 9. BUUUUTTT there are lots of grown ups and no body really talks any more to each other. Our doctor is pushing to get us all to talk to him again be cause we have shut down for a long time. Some of us felt like he was not safe any more and made the rest of us stop talking. I can not change any body else. I want to talk to the doctor sooooo much but may be I will not get to for a long time. Please do not hate your parts. If i were part of you that means you would hate me and I do not hate any body and I do not mean any body any bad stuff. May be you have parts like that too. I had to learn about some of the others doing things to try and keep us all safe. It sure can get confusing. jj.

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