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Poohbah
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how it PLEASED them and us when we learned how to cry like a grown up that little! cry silent not loud - so no one can hear and no one can be mad and you dont embarass yourselves!!!
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Poohbah
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((((((((( KathyAnita ))))))))) safe hugs if ok. I do not know what else to say. We are here if needed.
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Poohbah
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#3
dont want "safe" it is NOT
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Poohbah
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KathyAnita...what is the matter??
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Poohbah
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#5
it doesnt hurt it was never real its an imagination a lie
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Poohbah
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ok ....but I am here if needed.
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kathyanita, i'm thinking of you tonight. pat
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Poohbah
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#8
spend your time like that and find the revenue is disappointing
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stay safe...I'll be sending positive energy your way.
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Poohbah
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#10
thanks yous guys
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Poohbah
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#11
DO want "safe"
. . .whistling in the dark. . . |
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Poohbah
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KathyAnita,
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Poohbah
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#13
parts are pulling for a greater devide- a wider split and darker definition. . . you know? that defensive will to NOT join and be whole in one mind? destructive part has something to prove by taking a stand against the body to assert a self that is powerfull enough to kill without feeling and hurt without pain
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Poohbah
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#14
Kathyanita,
I think I do know what you mean. They do not want to join together. Perhaps they are afraid to do this. Separate was the way to survive. The only way they know how. Maybe some don't understand that they can work together and still survive. They can work together and still be separate. The goal can be cooperation. You do not have to be single in the brain to be "normal" and happy. Does everybody there understand this? Does your T understand this? I wish I could help with the destructive part. Maybe if we could find what this part feels needs to be proven the having to prove would stop. Hoping you are safe. Keep whistling I understand what you mean. place __________________ Hello |
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<font color="purple">Hello. We have lots of that now too. I am jj and I am just 9. BUUUUTTT there are lots of grown ups and no body really talks any more to each other. Our doctor is pushing to get us all to talk to him again be cause we have shut down for a long time. Some of us felt like he was not safe any more and made the rest of us stop talking. I can not change any body else. I want to talk to the doctor sooooo much but may be I will not get to for a long time. Please do not hate your parts. If i were part of you that means you would hate me and I do not hate any body and I do not mean any body any bad stuff. May be you have parts like that too. I had to learn about some of the others doing things to try and keep us all safe. It sure can get confusing. jj.
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