[WePow]

What do you do when you remember something from the past - when an alter you are helping heal opens the locked doors - and it is something you as your alter did that was wrong? Something that you dispise and have a hard time dealing with anyway, much less realizing that you as your alter actually did the thing...

Thank you for help.

[reg12]

Hi WP. You have to look at what it is and why the alter did that. You have to realize that the alter was possibly taught that from the abuser. Do not be angry with the alter. I find there is always a very good reason. You have to understand their logic and reasoning. Their outlook will normally be quite different from yours. They normally will have developed just one emotion, so it is easier for them to try to deal with what happens. If you want to talk about this more let me know.

Originally Posted by wpowers

What do you do when you remember something from the past - when an alter you are helping heal opens the locked doors - and it is something you as your alter did that was wrong? Something that you dispise and have a hard time dealing with anyway, much less realizing that you as your alter actually did the thing...

Thank you for help.

[anderson]

Originally Posted by wpowers

What do you do when you remember something from the past - when an alter you are helping heal opens the locked doors - and it is something you as your alter did that was wrong? Something that you dispise and have a hard time dealing with anyway, much less realizing that you as your alter actually did the thing...

Thank you for help.

wp we are only human, we all make mistake what makes us better then most is that we apoligize to each other. you realy have to treat each other the same way you would want your SO to treat all of your parts. Mind you until you know each others story you can not change the thing that you do that trigger each other. That will come with time and forgiveness will fallow we have been working with each other for more years than I will say. the one main truth that I have found is when you are as close to your parts as we are it very had to stay mad for long because we also learn why we do the thing we do. We also have a clear understanding how each of us were created. Hold on you just met your next best friend if she is willing to accept the truth. good luck and lots of TLC