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Old Oct 30, 2009, 09:43 AM
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im not doing well at all...seem to be spiralling downward and have no back up plan for this kind of thing...going inpatient is NOT an option...so what do i need to do? there is loud noises inside and i hear littles crying and i dont know what to do...im confused, lost, tired and scared...

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Old Oct 30, 2009, 10:00 AM
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Hello Jewel,
Sorry for your downward movement. Some time we stop our upward movement and need to just rest where we are. Othertimes we fall backwards. This seems to be normal. Just reach out and catch one of us on the upward and we will try to hold you where you are at, until you catch your footing. We may need help ourselves sometimes, so we don't mind assisting. We are all in this together.

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im not doing well at all...seem to be spiralling downward and have no back up plan for this kind of thing...going inpatient is NOT an option...so what do i need to do? there is loud noises inside and i hear littles crying and i dont know what to do...im confused, lost, tired and scared...

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Old Oct 30, 2009, 11:09 AM
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Yes jewals you are not alone, If it had not been for this place we would not have known wht to do. The worst part of remembering is the alones. The questons on the reality of those memiors. Please do not think you have to go alone. Those of us here are willing to hear and understand that those memiors are real and need valadations to be put to reast. May you find shelter from the storm and know all of your parts are loved and understood here. Safe hugs for all that need it
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Old Oct 30, 2009, 11:41 AM
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Take care of yourself, in whatever safe way you need to.
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Old Oct 30, 2009, 12:39 PM
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Old Oct 30, 2009, 12:56 PM
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Old Oct 30, 2009, 03:38 PM
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Go to a safe place, use the tiny comforts to help you get through this scary and confusing time. We are here for you to talk with, if that helps you, sweetie. Gentle hugs to you!

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Old Oct 30, 2009, 05:27 PM
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Sometimes, all you can do is take care of the basics. Safety is the first one. Try to let go and trust the system for your needs. You can lean on us.
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Old Oct 30, 2009, 05:29 PM
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Old Oct 30, 2009, 06:01 PM
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im not doing well at all...seem to be spiralling downward and have no back up plan for this kind of thing...going inpatient is NOT an option...so what do i need to do? there is loud noises inside and i hear littles crying and i dont know what to do...im confused, lost, tired and scared...

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You can do it Jewels...talk to us k? who can say something first?

we have a new little called Chicklet, her full name is Chiquitita (I think that is the spelling), thanks to Genn. She is learning new words. Maybe, who knows, before long, she can speak here too.





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Old Oct 30, 2009, 06:43 PM
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im not doing well at all...seem to be spiralling downward and have no back up plan for this kind of thing...going inpatient is NOT an option...so what do i need to do? there is loud noises inside and i hear littles crying and i dont know what to do...im confused, lost, tired and scared...

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It's so hard when things are so noisy inside and the littles are so distressed..................try to use all the things you would use to comfort a distressed child, hold them, love them, stuffies......let them draw and play whenever you can.
Know that we are here for you all, come and write here, lean on us and let us try to hold you up to holt that downward spirall, remember this is just a few steps back and you can start again to walk those forward steps
Know that we care very very much and will walk this path with you......YOU are NOT alone!!!! we are here with you all

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