Jon's doing well!

Things are going really well. We've been really busy, but good things are happening.

We bought a house in October, and we got married on Halloween!

We've both been seeing our T as best we can - she got hurt and is stuck at home for months. We can have sessions there, so we do, but that's kinda weird...

I haven't seen the guys out much lately. I did get a chance to talk with Jonathan a few weeks ago. He says they're working in the background these days, trying to be a team and to let Jon handle things first. And he says that Jon really is handling things himself a lot more these days. I kinda knew that, but it was good to hear his side of things.

The one thing that made Jonathan and me a little sad was that he knows there will come a time when he won't be separate anymore. He told me that i need to forget about him as Jonathan, forget about our times together. He's not needed much anymore and he isn't going to have his own time after a while.

I'm really happy that Jon is doing more and more - and that the guys are working with him instead of trying to do it for him. I'd wondered - the last few times we've argued about anything, it's been Jon talking with me instead of Jonathan or J.T coming out to handle it. I know that's really big, if he's comfortable enough with me - and comfortable enough with his anger! - to speak for himself.

But I'm kinda sad, too. I know the goal is for him to become unified - all for one and one for all, in a way. Our T describes it as something like a clover. The alters don't have to disappear, as much as they have to learn how to all work together. But I'm going to miss the guys. It was so cool getting to know everyone and spending time with them all. And I know they are happy that I am willing to accept them...I guess I never thought that I'd never get to talk to them individually again.

Oh, that is so hard to explain!!! I KNOW that everybody is part of Jon and that Jon is everybody. But I got used to knowing everyone separately, too.
But overall, it's good news.

The one sad note...we lost a kittya couple of weeks ago. Kingsford got really sick, and he died. At least i have my own backyard to bury him in.

(((Jon and everyone)))

I got to see everyone the other night. We both had a rough day, got in a fight. We had calmed down and we were oK, but the guys came 'round to see what was going on.
They've missed a lot lately. I mean, we moved, we got married, a cat died. We had a lot of catching up to do. It was cool to see everybody.

OK, I do have a question. Would DID make someone susceptible to contacting ghosts? There have been two occasions, once at the old house (which we know was haunted) and at the new one (which very well may be). At the old place, he seemed to be talking with the guy who was there. Here, it seems like the old lady who lived in the house was interacting with a couple of the alters. Then it seemed like she came into to him to talk with me a little.

I don't know what to think. The skeptic in me wants to say he's susceptible to suggestion and that he just psychosomatized her (or something). The nasty skeptic says he was just getting attention after our fight. But the rest of me isn't so sure. I wouldn't be surprised if the lady still hangs out at our house - she lived there from 1961 until she died. Just odd that she could speak through him. But not unbelievable. There's a lot more in the world than we could ever know, and there's a lot more to the human mind than we'll ever figure out.

It was just weird...

But good to see everyone. They say they're fine and they're proud of him for handling things so well lately. I'm proud of him, and I'm proud of them for working together.

OK, so never mind that. I was out of line to ask.

We have wedding pictures!
http://s15.photobucket.com/albums/a382/MbMinx/Wedding/
I know maybe this should go somewhere else, but you guys are the only ones I know and trust.

Kendyll you have so many living and sharing one body. How can you not believe the unbelievable. All things are possible if you believe. Next time say hi and see hat happens.

wonderful pictures. thanks for sharing. you both look awesome. congratulations.

BB