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Mar 08, 2010, 08:33 PM
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WE got back to flag to see our son and we were asked by one of the people that hurt us how we are doing. Now this was just after a week of doing internal work that hurt like h*ll. but as always the elders always have us sit down and wright down the good things that come out of the bad.
1. we finely got to the baby, at leat we hope so we can let a couple of infent to the suface when we are near a person that baby feels safe with. non of us remember that from the last attempt to intergrate. 2. we are working together more easily. the older ones are teaching the younger ones. 3.the really cool thing is the singers are coming out and when they feel safe are singing in church. That has not happen since we went to universty. We remember with freinds that even the guys would sing out favority to listen to was the Duck of Earl. We told this to one person we said it was cool to listen to other parts sing. Laughing we told her we each have our own skill and let each other do it as long as it does not hurt the whole.  4. As long has the person that hurt us did not hurt us to badly. we are able to stand our ground to them. before we just ran cause we felt like no one cared.  5. we be able to talk here when no one in irl would listen to us. That let us heal even more. 6. we make friends here, even think some here are starting to want to really talk to us cause we no longer act out in pain no more.  to those here that helped us get there.7. our son gots some one helping him to grow up not be so mean to us and he doing his school work now.  8.we be able to ask for what we need from those around us now. we still need to learn to trust agin but they understand why now. Or at least we hope so.  9. we got little chat here now to. 10.even through all the h*ll we be trough here we still healing  we thank you all for your help here for the top 10 reasons. 
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Mar 08, 2010, 10:21 PM
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We very glad to hear you healing.
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Mar 10, 2010, 09:09 PM
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Thank you for sharing your process. What a lot of work you are doing!
You are so hard-working and so caring. Love, Hunny  .
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