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Old Apr 27, 2010, 05:26 PM
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How do people handle the loss of time. You say, I cant remember and are sincere because you cant but it sounds like an excuse especially when it happens often. I feel like I am losing respect from my peers. They don't know about my issues and to tell them would totally wipe out any respect i have gained. I cant even argue with my husband, he will say give an example or say when and right there I've lost. I'm sorry if this sounds rambling but I am so frustrated and embarrassed. I volunteer, but I put my self out there, i should know people would be able to see that we cant keep it together for long. Sorry
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Old Apr 27, 2010, 05:36 PM
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Lost time is a big issue when there is no safety for those inside. But it does get better.when those with in trust and share with each other that is when no matter which one is out you will have a group memoiry. But untill then it is very hard exspecially when you have no one to lean on to give your surport on the irl please keep coming here. and welcome to PC world.
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Old Apr 27, 2010, 11:16 PM
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Thank you for posting and I am glad you are here. Lost time is something we are very famiar with. It is very unnerving to not know what you have done or that you have done things and have no recall of it. We are much more co-conscious now than we were even two years ago. But at times there is still lost time.

Trying to explain it to others is really hard especailly when it does not make any sense to you. It takes time to get to know your system to be able to trust each other. To come together enough to have that co-consciousness so that you can know.

It took time to get to where we were and it will take time to get yourself to the point where there is safety so that you can be aware. Sometimes it is all you can do for it is all you have known. Please be patient with yourself for in time you will get to know the others within and then you will be able to know who is out and have that co-consciousness.

Know that we understand and we care. We are here for you and please keep posting and letting us know how you are doing. Sending gentle hugs and loving thoughts. Always.

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