[anderson]

In the last couple of days we have been able to go and spend time with those that we call Papa and Mama Bear. This one Papa Bear has always been one that we could turn to when we got scared of Dark wolfs that hurt us to just score points. We have not talk to him to much lately because he has been spending time with one person that we have heard say bad things about us.
On this day he had come up to us with out this person so we Just said "So you are going to talk with us today ?"
At that he just joked back saying "Don't think you are going to figure me out young lady."
WE smiled and said "You want to make a bet? And just for the record, We have never asked you to take us home. She has Not me." Pointing to the person in question.
WE cought him by surprise and he asked us a couple of questions. We just told him nope. We wove you papa bear but we would never ask that of a married man.
The person that we had over heard say those things to him just walked away.
We scored. WE told the truth so now we hope that this Papa bear will know that we will always look to him for friendship and safety for the Dalmations. As to the person we later got called a ray of rainbow words. We all gladly accept those words if it will allow those that we call Papa and Mama bears back in our lifes with out the black gossip interfering with those people that gave us safety and sercurity to face our abusive pass.

[darkpurplesecrets]

((((anderson))))

Thank you for sharing and know that we are sitting quietly with you and that we care. Sending gentle hugs and loving thoughts. Always.

dps

[krazy_phoenix]

I am sooo happy for you anderson . It feels like you've made a touchdown or a home run or something (kickn goals from where I am!!) - a small yet significant achievement in the scale of things that seem to happening to you IRL - to have people you trust back in your life, and to right a wrong that was done against you in the same instance. Way to go!!
Hope the Dalmations and all others are feeling some joy.
kp

[anderson]

Yes, it is sooo good to be able to go to the people that you know that you are safe with and be able to have safe touch.
For a body that as the worst reputaion with other people it gets me that we finely were able to tell a group of people to leave us alone and yet have back up by those that did not know what to do to keep us safe. It seem like with each time that we asked for help and safety, or that our sons safety was put into question, we were hurt so bad or scared we stayed away from those that we trusted,
But now that all within know that our son is safe we are able to stand our ground and know that there are people that are listen to us now. But most of all we were able to go up to a group of people and say thank you for letting us learn what safe touch was all about again. We even got to tell a couple of women that if you can't say it to my face then yoiu had no business in saying it. Exspecially if you are saying that I said it.
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Safe touch- the ability to know that another person will not touch you in a mannor that makes you feel uncomfortable, scared, or in danger. This type of touch will make you feel warm, safe, and cared for when done correctly.

[Hunny]

There is victory happening in your life in this regard Anderson, well done!

Sorry to be late in responding.

I am happy for you.

Hunny