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Jul 13, 2010, 01:30 AM
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Intense Troubles ......
Were having constant struggle at keeping some parts(people) to us, Anyway, were feeling overwhelmed and we know the things we need and yet our doctor doesn't care, he says that is what a social worker does. Like he is to good to show some love by a pat on the back. It feels really overwhelming to feel so alone, knowing your doctor doesn't even care. I know I am lucky to have a doctor but are we? Coming up on 7 years and NOTHING has been done to make system healthier that he has done. There is no one else to see. Really.... which is really not good for many more ppl then just me. We feel so sad knowing the abusers were right we don't belong. So here we are still here reaching for the next part knowing that will have awlful stuff. Knowing others inside went through different stuff then I . I must help out who I can at least were here for each other. Still heavy heavy troubles then stick the health problems to it and pain and knowing something is wrong... yet no one caring to want to see me too much wrong with us. Thanks for reading and hint...hint... HUGS , we like those hugs. Crew
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Jul 13, 2010, 01:34 AM
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Jul 13, 2010, 02:39 AM
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ohhh crew, it is so hurting to be stuck feeling hopeless and alone and overwhelmed and unwanted. people here care deeply for you hun
 abusers were NOT right, there are places you can belong (like here), but i know it is often impossible to feel a sense of belonging. we could argue that many people here unbelong, but you add them all together and things kinda start meshing. like a collage. think of what image and words you feel like and stick it on the pyschcentral collage and i bet you belong more than you think. this is you and me hanging out together 
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He said that we can email as MUCH as we want (100 times per day). Believe in this - it is challenging fears about being punished. It is okay to be seen. You are not a nuisance. "Too much" simply means exploration, not punishment/withdrawal. Trust in him. Not looking at him is about keeping aspects of self hidden/secret. We know that is not the healthy choice. Keep working on this - you will get there. Accept there are parts. Be kind and gentle with them. Working with parts and feelings is the key to happiness. We have been happy before when listened to them and accepted them and were open to feelings. Write in your journal - it is safe to do so. 
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Jul 13, 2010, 08:03 AM
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hope you feel better soon im sorry you are feeling so bad its hard to feel that way so alone and liek there is no place for you anywhere we have had those same feelings but you do belong we all do and the abusers were nto rite they never were many many many safe hugs for you all jenna and all |
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Jul 13, 2010, 09:17 AM
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Jul 13, 2010, 10:01 AM
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Crew I am so sorry for your trubbles. know you can always and will always have support. If your doc isnt helping sometimes it means that he doesnt know how to do anything. You all have more power then he does to make things right inside of you but he should be there to help show you the way.
I hope you feel better soon, Firefly
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Jul 13, 2010, 01:45 PM
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((((Crew))))
WE feel the same. After all that we have been through it is still here that was the first place to hear us and understand us. Just know that we do need you and all within. There is so many times we wished that we could live near others like us to give real surport and understanding. You gave that to us when we first came here. So even though it be so long distance We hope you feel all of us sending you CYBER HUGS to all within you!
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Sometimes the only way to find freedom is to fight for it, even unto death! Because no form of abuse transcends pass it! To live free and with hope is still the greatest gift of life!- anderson .gif "Boy Angel")
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Jul 13, 2010, 05:06 PM
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((((((((((Crew)))))))))))
having problems with any dr who is supposed to be helping is frustrating, but to me it is worse because they KNOW that you need the kudos because of what you are going through...I am SO sorry that you are having to go through this...I know how it feels not to feel validated and affirmed...I'm sorry it's something that you don't get from your dr...if it helps, we think you are TOPS in our eyes...you do so much for so many others, helping them to feel at ease and making them comfortable with all of us around these here parts...YOU ARE OK Crew, take it from us!
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Jul 13, 2010, 08:01 PM
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many hugs to you, and i will send some positive healing energy your way! |
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Jul 16, 2010, 02:33 PM
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((((crew))))
Thank you for posting and for reaching out here. I know that it feels as though you do not belong anywhere and that the abusers were right. But that is what they want you to think. If you think that then they have won. I know that it feels that way but feelings change and they do not always tell us the truth. You have a right to how you are feeling and to be supported in those feelings. You are doing nothing wrong. Each time you reach out you are beating your abusers. You are doing exactly what they said you would not be able to do. Our abusers want us to feel defeated because in that the lies they told us begin to scream louder into our heads causing havoc inside. I validate how you are feeling but please know that you do matter and you do belong here on PC. I am so sorry about your doctor. He is supposed to be there for you. Keep telling him until he listens. I am sorry there is not another doctor you could look into seeing. But I do hear you and understand. Do you see a social worker? Can you talk to them about this if he will not listen? I hear you about the heavy stuff and then physical health on top of it. Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Keep reaching and asking. Even in taking a baby step you are moving forward. And those baby steps add up to the bigger steps. There is no time limit on how long it takes for it took years to get to where we are now. It will take how ever long it takes to heal. Remember to breath and to take it one minute one second at a time if that is what you need to do. Know that we are here for you and we are listening, we care and we believe you. Please keep posting and let us know how you are doing. Sending gentle hugs and loving thoughts. Always. dps
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Jul 16, 2010, 05:41 PM
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((((((Crew)))))
You are cared about so much here! I'm sorry your doctor is not able to provide what you need. That is not your fault and does not reflect badly on you. It is your doctor's limitation. We care about you so much!!!!
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Jul 16, 2010, 05:44 PM
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(((Crew))))
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Jul 16, 2010, 08:00 PM
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(((Crew))) You deserve so much better.
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