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Dec 18, 2005, 09:35 PM
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Does anyone acknowledge their littles and or teens at Christmas with presents or anything?
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Dec 18, 2005, 09:39 PM
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yepper papa does only us littles though not the older ones
Laura
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Dec 18, 2005, 10:52 PM
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mr bear buys me toys
lucy
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Dec 19, 2005, 03:29 AM
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i want a present
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Dec 19, 2005, 07:31 AM
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My h & son buy presents for the littles.
 We are getting a barbie doll in a wheel chair for Seven. Raven Girl will probably choose music. Peter got a spring suit to swim in the cold rivers, it has already arrived.The bigs don't like xmas, it reminds them of all bad stuff. 
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Dec 20, 2005, 06:42 PM
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I know I should but I havent. My T has given us all something before at Christmas. She gave Snodders a dolly last year.
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Jan 04, 2006, 11:11 PM
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Aw sweetie...
Maybe you will get one next year? (((muse))) |
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Jan 06, 2006, 03:28 PM
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i think it's important to acknowledge with gifts those that feel safe enough being acknowledged. some littles i know and i are going to have a big movie day in lieu of presents... a little appropriate movie in the morning and a more grown up one for the bigs later.
 i hope you all had merry xmas' and happy new years.  shadow
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Jan 07, 2006, 05:02 AM
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hey. yeah... i never thought of that...
i shall think of something... christmas is a hard time... a hard time all round... maybe... it will be easier next year. thanks for your thought. |
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Jan 07, 2006, 09:39 AM
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Littles this year got simple things that could also double for fun Bigs things.
A picture/story book about fairies (I love fairies and fantasy stuff) with a CD that reads the stories (great so a little can be out with blanket and stuffie and listen) , a couple of puppets--one a cow that MOOOS and a smaller cow so they could "talk" to each other (we take them to therapy and our T uses them for play therapy sometimes). A CD of silly songs that Bigs remember and can sing along just for fun...lightens the day and for a while we forget. As my T tells me, there is a kid in all of us--Dissociative or not--and that Kid part needs to be acknowledged or we become sour over responsible over mature adults who have lost the fun in life. Those of us with Littles have such an advantage if we pay attention to them and allow them to show us once again the joy of being a Kid. It's not so much giving them presents as just letting them be littles. Shadow--we went to see Narnia, and Willow loved it--she's about 7-8 yrs old. w_i |
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