[kimmydawn]

My brother's not doing well and is suicidal and not maintaining temper, nerves, etc.

My little man is coming home full time. They only had him three nights and 2 days, but it was too much after a while.

A precious child's well being MUST be first. I'm gonna be off and on for a few days while the adjustments, decisions are being made.

Much love,

kd

[Fuzzybear]

(((((((((((((((((( kimmy )))))))))))))))))))

so wonderful that you are supporting each other like this..

and in such a non judgemental way.

(((((KD))))

[pegasus]

I'm sorry your brother is not doing well.

Don't forget to take care of yourself too.

((((((((((((( kimmydawn )))))))))))))))))

(((((((((((((Kimmydawn))))))))))))))

glad he's coming back full time to where he belongs - with you.

[vanna123]

I am sorry to hear about your brother, but happy that a child's life will be made better.

[jmo531]

((((((((((((((((((((((Kimmy))))))))))))))))))))

Thinking of you

[dottie]

Sorry about your brother. Sending prayers up for him.!!!

[Twisted_Soul]

((((( KD's Family)))))

Stay strong. Remember to take care of you too!

[SleepsWithButterFlies]

Wow I am so glad the child has YOU...I feel for your brother too and am glad he isnt going to give you a hard time on it...this is...good news.....the child will be safe...Can we give him a name??????

[kimmydawn]

His name is David Bruce, II. He is perfect and beautiful.

[wanttoheal]

(((((((((((((((kd))))))))))))
I'm glad for little man but i also understand the implications for you. I know it will all work out though. I'm sorry brother is having a hard time right now. I am here.

[heartspace]

You and your family will be in my thoughts {{{kd}}}

[Evangelista]

What a Precious spirit KD..many gentle hugs..

[CedarS]

(((((((((KD and Family))))))))))

[kimmydawn]

thank you so much ((((((((((((((((everyone))))))))))))))))))

he's jumpy to loud sounds and voices, but very happy otherwise.

thank you again,

kd

[lenjan]

That kid sure is lucky to have someone who loves him as much as you do, kd. I'll keep your family in my thoughts.

Love, Candy

PS: He's a little heartbreaker, too! Just wait till he goes to preschool -- the girls are going to be all over him!

[desirae]

That's great, and your right he is gorgeous.

[nothemama8]

We're happy for you KD, take care of things there first then come back to us soon, we had some heartache and need support too, will wait til your able to get back to us here
Laura & Iris

[bipolar_bear]

((((((((((((Kimmydawn))))))))))) Your brother and David Bruce are very fortunate to have such a wonderful person in their family. I hope his adjustment is smooth and he soon settles in. Please remember to take care of yourself too.

[LILITH]

KD you are a true guardian of the light side..... Take care you him and take care of you....{{{{{KD}}}}}

i'm so glad that he is safely with you

[hillbunnyb]

KD, oh my, it's finally happened, huh? A permanent fix sounds good to me. Kids need to lay their little heads on the same pillow under the same roof in the same safe home every night for the stongest sense of stability, in my humble opinion......

I hope your brother finds his way to some peace. Hard stuff. You guys have been through so much. . . I'll be thinking of you'uns.

[kimmydawn]

again, ((((((((everyone)))))))))) thank you so much.

a good little update...

i think we're turning his anxiety of being in trouble around pretty quickly while here. today, for example, me and him were dancing and i had to do a few things. he continued dancing with the back scratcher (LOL) and in his excitement released it and it went across the room. immediately he stopped with a scared look and said, "it was an accident mom" and dropped his head to get ready to cry. i put my hand up and VERY softly said, "yes, it was an accident and EVERYONE is fine" with a smile. he didn't cry! even two days ago he would've bawled. this is good.

later we'll talk about being careful with the backscratcher. i just wanted the focus on it being fine for the moment. if i would've said anything more than that, it would've validated his fear.

oh, just now, he was rolling off the couch (he's a little boy) and spilled his toys and i just looked to make sure he was ok and said nothing. he came up and got in my face and said, "that's ok? you're not mad, mom?" i said, "no, honey, i'm not mad. we'll pick it up together." he felt comfortable enough to say, "no, you can pick it up." LOLOL.

it's going to be a fine line in letting him know that it's all alright, and not allowing for what is not alright. however, unless it's something dangerous, everything is just alright right now.

he's been so increasingly showing this behavior of anxiety and people being "mean and mad" for about the last three weeks....coinciding with daddy not doing well. i'd been watching closely as i was picking up on the change. when i saw it increasing, i knew and acted.

thank you all so much again.

Now, please pray for warm weather!

kd

[Monty_girl]

What KD you not like snow the first 2 days of Spring????

I'm glad little man is settling back in. Think he will be back to his normal self in a week or two. It must be really confusing for him right now. Just breath. Take Care.
Much Love, Monty