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Mar 31, 2006, 12:53 PM
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Just venting. My h is being ridiculous. Can't get into specifics because I think he looks. But, he's being selfish and unsupportive, just when I thought everything was going well. Just like when I was a kid - get her to believe that things are good, that I am good, and then wham! I don't know how much longer I can keep trying.
   Songbird
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Mar 31, 2006, 02:49 PM
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((((((((((Songbird)))))))
Sorry it is tough. Hang on to the fact that you ARE good. |
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Mar 31, 2006, 03:21 PM
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You are a good person! I am sorry things are tough and that your husband is being that way
 (((((((((((((((SongBirdandDaisy)))))))))))))))))
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Mar 31, 2006, 08:51 PM
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Thank you,Caroline.
I'm just frustrated and confused and trying to do what is right for me. He just seems to work against me. He's ambiguous - being supportive and then saying or doing the exact opposite. I feel like I'm lost in a dark alley in a strange city. I have no clue which way to go.
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Mar 31, 2006, 08:54 PM
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Thank you, Fuzzy.
I try to remind myself of that. Try to remind myself that I decided to start standing up for myself and that I do deserve to be treated good. It's just that, when I thought things were going great, I put myself out there to trust - and he pulled the rug out from under me. Now we are all confused. The littles are all in hiding and refusing to come out. I feel TOTALLY AND UTTERLY alone. I have no clue as to what to do next. I do know that I am not going to cover for him any more and that he is going to be held accountable for his own actions. I'm tired of being the giver and the bender and the everything. I'm not going to be the victim anymore!
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