Why do they get angry and storm off and leave me?
Why do they say it is my fault?
Why can't I get it right?
I try not to be bad, I try to make people happy but it is never good enough and they always end up mad.
I must be bad, really bad.
alice

well, you know alice. I sort of see it like this.

sometimes, no matter what we do, people get upset. It could be because they are upset anyways, it could be because they are having a bad day, or it could be thatthey just chose to react poorly.

Someone getting upset has lots of factors, and its not always something that youve done that will cause it.

Im proud that you try your best, and thats all anyone can ask you to do

[January]

((((((((((((((( Alice ))))))))))))))))

You are not bad. You are very good and very nice.

Love and hugs,

Miss Jan

[SongBirdandDaisy]

Hi Alice,

I agree with Rainbowzz. Unfortunately, sometimes people take their problems out on us. And it's nothing we did wrong. That's hard to understand and it makes us feel bad. From your posting, I don't see how you could be bad? You seem very nice and loving and caring, that's the kind of person who gets "targetted" the most. But DON'T CHANGE! It's the other persons unhealthy behavior, not yours.

Could you talk to C's T about it? If you don't feel safe enough to do that, I bet it would be okay if you slip him a note. I know Daisy does that sometimes.

Lots of Hugs,

SongBird