memories-littles hurt

willow remembered something about grandpa. she won't stop crying. playroom inside is full of crying littles. i can't do anything. i'm upset and mad.
don't know what to do.

vicki

{{{{ Vicki }}}}}

I wish I could help more.

Oh Vicki!

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((((((((( Littles ))))))))))

Is there anything I can do for you, hon?

Love and hugs,

Jan

jan--i don't know what to do. i called our t and she's not around today. i feel all sick and upset. how do i get willow to stop crying? theresa and marie keep telling her she's bad. i try to tell her she's not. w_i is upset too.
vicki

Vicki,

Can you call your pdoc? Is that possible?

Is it possible for all of you to take nap? That would help.

I don't think there is much more you can do than that if Theresa and Marie won't mind you. Just keep telling Willow she is good. Can you rock everyone? That usually settles people down.

I'm here for you, hon!

Love and hugs,

Jan

Can you read a story to willow? Sometimes that settles my littles down - distracts them.

((((all of you))))

willow doesn't like to be rocked or held. i can try a fairy story, she likes fairies. we tried a nap and no one wanted to sleep. maybe later. willow likes peanut butter and marshmellow fluff sandwhiches. maybe it will help her feel better. i don't know. pdoc not there today. she's in another office. we'll just try other stuff. i want a beer but w_i and T say i'm too young. who says a 14 yr old can't drink???
Vicki

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You are doing a wonderful job. I am so proud of you. I am so sorry you are going through such a hard time.

Hugs,

Jan

can i tell what happened??
Vicki

Yes, Vicki, if it willl help.

You might want to put a trigger warning on it though if it might upset other littles.

Maybe you could read them this story, Vicki.

They liked it the first time around.

Figment finds a friend

Vicki,

It is very brave of you to try and help everyone.

If Willow doesn't like to be held or rocked, maybe you can just sit with her. Do you have a safe place? That might help quiet everyone down.

I hope things settle down for you soon.

Hugs (if okay)
Songbird

((((((((((((((Vicki)))))))))))))))) I am sorry things are so rough right now. I hope you can get hold of your t or your pdoc soon.

I am so sorry for your pain....I wish I could do something to help....Lilith/marguritte

we sit in the playroom inside. i tell her it's ok and she's good. but she thinks she did a really bad thing.
i know grandpa's dead now, but she doesn't.
i'll tell more later. we're tired and gotta get up early.
thanks for everyone being here. willow's sleeping or she would write about it.
vicki

I hope you had a very nice sleep willow. When we are upset or feelin things that are hard for us, we listen to our special song which we all have one of. Mine special song is pitchikoo park. do you have a special song? I wanted to know what that things are that you put in your sanwiches?? I never heard of that before and i want to make some but i don't know what fluff is.

you are a brave willow.
Rosie

marshmallow fluff is like melted marshmallows in a jar. in our store its near the stuff you put on icecream. another store has it near the peanutbutter and jelly. its really good!
Vicki

marshmallow fluff sounds good! I would like to try it.

You are doing a good job of looking after Willow, Vicki.

we saw our T today. willow was really upset and hurt and confused. T really helped alot and willow is a bit better. i will read to her later.
thanks every one for listening. willow is exhausted and almost fell asleep in T's office before i could come back.
vicki

Vicki,

I'm glad you were able to see T and that willow also was able to.

Good thoughts,

Songbird

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((((((((( Willow )))))))))))))

I am so proud of you. Of course you can tell us what happened if you wish. Vicki, you are simply wonderful!

Love and hugs to both,

Jan

Thanks for the info on marshmellow fluff - Rosie thought it would be just great, though seems our country doesn't have that kind of thing(not that we checked or anything today while doing the shopping )I have never heard of it anywhere here..so we will just have to imagine from afar.

I hope Willow enjoys her story - you're great to take such good care of her. Don't forget to take care of you too.

Storm

Hi Storm,

Go ask the store manager about the marshmallow cream. That's what it's called here. You use it to make chocolate or peanut butter fudge.

Good luck!

Hugs,

Jan

'...chocolate or peanut butter fudge.' immmmmmmmmmmm