I'm just wondering, because sometimes people in the outside world can be pretty triggering in a place like PC that's supposed to be safe and while one or two would be okay, more would throw the chi off.

I also don't understand how we could really help those who are supporting DIDers, since we have never been in that position?

[missbelle]

I don't think people come here just for the heck of it to read what we say. I think people come here because they have issues, what ever they are. I don't always understand peoples issues either because all I have experienced are my own, but I can certainly feel empathy and give encouragement even though I have not walked in their shoes.

We have to trust whoever is here, is here, because they truly need us, and hense, we need them as well!

[Crew]

I agree with missbelle! Well said!!!!!

and we need missbelle and you-(((LydiaB))))))))

Crew

[amandalouise]

Originally Posted by LydiaB

I'm just wondering, because sometimes people in the outside world can be pretty triggering in a place like PC that's supposed to be safe and while one or two would be okay, more would throw the chi off.

I also don't understand how we could really help those who are supporting DIDers, since we have never been in that position?

Its my understanding that in general all the boards and other pages on psych central is open to the public whether they are mental disordered or not.. I read a post somewhere probably in the support and feedback boards where Doc John explained he opened psych central to the search engines so that people can find psych central.

that said in regards to this board here (Dissociative disorders) again its open for anyone not just those with dissociative disorders or one set disorder. I have read some of the older posts where some students have come asking questions and some people who know others with the disorder have come here asking questions/ help and support.

my opinion is that Im glad all walks of life not just the mentally disordered are welcome on psych central. in general the more people learn about mental disorders the less stigmatizing/bullying happens of/to those that are mental disordered, plus what better way for the mentally ill to learn about mental disorders then from their family, friends and treatment providers that may have come across psych central, and in doing so became educated in dissociative disorders so that they can help point their friends, family towards treatment and knowing they are not alone.

maybe its because here in NY where I live and work we accept everyone, black white, physically handicapped, the mentally disorder or just any person regardless of race, politics, normal, physically and mentally challenged..but i believe its ok for anyone to whether they are dissociative or not to be here.

Im also this open minded about my posts here on psych central because doc john has been upfront letting everyone know this website is searchable and everyone is allowed to see whats on these boards, including those that are not members on psych central, so I have never had a problem with having people in general coming on the dissociative boards and reading. I just take care of what Im posting, I dont post things I wouldnt want anyone outside of my family and friends to see.

if theres something you are afraid that others outside of psych central will see, you can let the moderators know and they will delete the posts for you.

No I mean is this board also for people who support people with DID? Or is it just for people with DID?

[Luce]

I don't think there are any hard and fast rules about who may post here, Lydia, as long as the content of the posts are about dissociative disorders (not just DID, but any type of dissociation).

If some posts by some posters here are triggering for you you can practise self care by not reading posts by that person.

[LouR]

When I joined psychcentral I didn't realise that the forums existed until I clicked to join the website.
I think LydiaB that there maybe persons on here that want to support DID and get an understanding of it as well and thats ok. The more our supporters know the more they can understand it. Cos sometimes I don't.

[PurpleFlyingMonkeys]

I think it would be beneficial for those who are supporting a loved one with DID as they can ask questions and gain knowlege (as much as someone could without being DID) on what it's like for a person suffering with DID. They can see the struggles, the ups and downs. I think as long as they are not unvalidating it, or taking away from someones diagnosis or experience and as long as they are respectful kind and guarded on triggering things, that it would be ok.

I'd rather the world know more about DID, that way I didn't feel like a freak when I think about the diagnosis and that way I wouldn't have to continue to try to explain it to someone who has never heard of it, and no matter how many times I try to explain it, they never seem to understand. Increasing awareness and educating on it would be of great help to all of us imo