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Old Nov 01, 2006, 04:27 PM
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Hope it proves beneficial too and that you feel more comfortable soon.
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Maybe it's difficult for now but could it be worth it if your in peace within yourself in the future?
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Old Nov 02, 2006, 09:01 AM
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When good words go bad

The words that are supposed to encourage, make me feel good, make me feel comforted are the words that cause much distress:

You’re special
You’re pretty, beautiful. cute, adorable….etc.
I love you
You’re my favorite….
I really like having you near me
Sit by me
Relax
This won’t hurt
I’ll never hurt you
Don’t worry
Let me give you a hug
Give me a hug
I really like what you are wearing
You look great!
Trust me

There’s probably more, but these are off the top of my head. What comes to mind when I think of words gone bad. I try not to say them too much to ppl. I wonder if they are upset by words like this too. I have to fight back strong feelings when I see these words. When I hear these words.
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Yes...words can trigger us too, especially in certain settings...Rel*x..big ugh..has the opposite effect..

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