[whispers_inthedark]

I recently lost my best friends because of another part trying to destruct my (small amount of) support. I posted earlier this week because I had no real support and now I have less. I do not know what to do and need some suggestions or encouragement if it's possible, my friend will not speak to me and I do not really understand the situation because I was co conscious when he emotionally hurt her so badly--she thinks it was me who did it and I thought it was me until he took all credit today. I don't know how to handle this because I have never been that close to another part when they did something this destructive. I felt like it was me doing and saying things but now he is saying it was him and I would never intentionally hurt my friend but he did, he knew of the weakness used against her and I did not. I really love my friend and I've lost her and I don't know how to cope. It is finals week and I do not know how to focus on studies on top of this.

[Solnutty]

It sounds like your friend is aware of your parts. Am I correct?

[whispers_inthedark]

Originally Posted by Solnutty

It sounds like your friend is aware of your parts. Am I correct?

Yes. We're talking again today but I'm scared it'll happen again. The friend is too.

[L.P.]

Sorry you have this going on. I'm glad to hear ya'll are speaking again though. It makes sense there would be concern about a repeat, but it does speak volumes to me about the strength of the relationship that you two can have this kinda talk and come together. Maybe this will end up being a thing that strengthens this friendship ultimately. I know it's hard when you hurt people you care about, I really do get that, but I think it's great you are talking again.

-V