[mandazzle]

Today at therapy my therapist told me that I dissociate, but she also said that I was emotionally abused by my (ex) boyfriend. It was really hard for me to accept that, and I think I was in denial of that when I was with him because I didn't want to believe that it could happen again. But it did happen again. And I really am having a hard time accepting that fact. Does this happen to anyone else?

[MyBestKids2]

Yes mandazzle, I do disassociate. Sometimes my kids notice it, I try not to, but things happen. One PDoc tried to link it to my Father, and that was the end of our sessions.

I wish you luck and peace!

[I_WMD]

I don' t know if this will help Buddy ,,, But sometimes if a peep is guilt tripping us ,,, >> and we decide to except that it is all our fault ,, we may go quiet and Dissappear into ourselves as a comfort zone ,,, and then just go through the motions of getting along ,, and all is alright .

But ya know ,, alot of what we go through in life ,, is a learning experience ,,>> I take like forever sometimes to learn .

So try not to beat yourself up to bad >...{{{{{ HUGS }}}}.

[wanttoheal]

Hi mandazzle,
I tend to vacillate between agreeing that I dissociate and just thinking that I am crazy. It's hard for me to accept that things have happened to cause results such as dissociating to the degree that interferes with my life. But we can't change much without awareness and acceptance, in my opinion, so even questioning this is a step forward.

Good luck with your healing process.