need a friend

we are switching very fast right now...... i think i have been out the most though the littles or munchkins only come out to see what is going on and then they hide again everyone is upset and no one is eating ....except for me.... i am jade by the way.... whenever i eat jen purges we have lost 14 lbs in 19 days ..... now some may say that is great because we need to loose the weight but when i told the therapist she was concerned she said loosing weight that fast is not good ...... she tried to talk to jen ....but jen got very upset and started crying she kind of wants to die...... i am not happy right now but i have a feeling things will get better and for now i don't want to give up because then i might miss the possible good things that might happen but jen feel hopeless.....the counselor said i may have to take over for now...... until we can get jen better..... that is scarey i have never really been the one in charge before what if i mess up or do something wrong or i am just not strong enough...... i got the munchkins some books to look at today .... mostly barbie .....stuff..... they like to look at books ......at night when things are scarey......... anyway i hope this doesn't overwhelm you just needed a friend to talk to.....

you have a friend in me, i dont now anything about did but im honest and caring, and i can play games and post pics

kathy

Is there any food jen will eat without purging? Ice cream maybe? Someone else here has this same issue but she's not always here. I'll let her know via email. Maybe she can help. How old is jen? (If she doesn't mind me asking)

((( jade ))) ((( jen ))) ((( munchkins ))) ((( all )))

We're glad you're all here.

hi jade - if you have to be in charge, i bet you can do it. i know for us that even when one is in charge and doens't know how, the others give direction from the back.
you can do it if you have to! your "team" will help you.
good for reaching out.
k

jen is 30, and there isn't much she will eat without purging .... a tiny portion of salad, or like 5 grapes , a half of a banana, that is it.....for a whole day if she will even eat that it has gotten worse.....

Hey Jade,my precious lil friend
Not overwhelming at all.. You can do it love.
You have such an inner strength, a will baby. I see the caring and mothering instincts you present to those little ones, by your making sure they're taken care of with books and such.
You know you're right Precious Heart, way-to-go. Things will get better sweetie.
Wish I could be there and hold you all Safely and give you all some little
Happys and Bunches & Bunches of

Bye Bye Love

Hi ginniesky,
How are you doing? I hope things are calming down some for you. We are glad you are here. Keep posting.

((((((((((((((((((ginniesky)))))))))))))))))))

i am here to be a friend and listen anytime...... safe, gentle hugs Jinny xoxoxoxoxoxoxo

(((((((((((((( ginniesky )))))))))))))))

(((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))

hope you are feeling a bit better today.

being in charge of your life is scary. but you can do it!

i have a part of me that's little. i buy her books and toys too. she LOVES to color and it's calming for me too.

take care, hon!

luv,
lily

We have a million and 3 coloring books around the house along with markers and crayons and colored pencils. And picture books with beautiful things in them too. We even have some Trixie Belden and Nancy Drew books around lol. Not sure when any of it was bought but it's all good. My kids even color in them lol.