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Aug 11, 2008 at 05:02 PM
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OK, I am aware I have got a very naughty child-part around just recently.
How do I deal with that? All suggestions and ideas would be gratefully received, thanks. __________________  Pegasus Got a quick question related to mental health or a treatment? Ask it here General Q&A Forum “Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by it's ability to climb a tree, it will live it's whole life believing that it is stupid.” - Albert Einstein |
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Aug 11, 2008 at 05:32 PM
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Apart from dying of embarrassment. 
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Aug 11, 2008 at 05:34 PM
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(((((((((((((( pegasus )))))))))))))))
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Aug 11, 2008 at 05:38 PM
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Thanks Furrypaws. 
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Aug 11, 2008 at 05:40 PM
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I tell you what you do, you ask admin to delete whatever it was that she posted!  I'm laughing! 
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Aug 11, 2008 at 05:42 PM
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Aug 11, 2008 at 05:42 PM
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((((Pegasus)))))) you get to be you..
with love and caring i'm wishing you peace and safety always...it hurts so bad some days.... let yourself feel all your own inner kindness that you feel for others and turn it upon yourself... you deserve as much love as you give .... it takes time to heal and understand.... help is around us if we look.... peace is everyones right and privilege imo.... dont let the bad days beat you over the head.... i hope it gets better over time for you... i think it will if you allow your good thoughts to protect yourself and those you feel love towards.... and then be you... we all have bad days sometimes.. i hope i didnt offend at all...
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Aug 11, 2008 at 05:42 PM
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Sounds to me like someone needed to be heard....she was heard  Is she feeling any better now? sabby |
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Aug 11, 2008 at 05:44 PM
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She sure is! Thanks everyone for being there for us!!! 
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Aug 11, 2008 at 05:50 PM
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YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WooooooooooooooHoooooooooooo!!!
That's the name of the game  And sometimes that game starts off like this -  sabby |
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Aug 11, 2008 at 06:26 PM
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Yes it has been like that... Then the adult did a runner.  Child went...  and...  and she thought she'd get...  but she got.. ya boo, you suck too! What a learning experience ay! Thanks all.
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Aug 11, 2008 at 07:26 PM
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Awwwwwwwww...what a day you and her have had....hope you get some R & R tonight.
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Aug 11, 2008 at 08:47 PM
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You know, When I feel the need to get into trouble, which now you’ve got me thinking about whether I’m very able to control this or not I’ll be sure to note that next time it happens. It is an intense mood, but one that is easily handled, I think. The feeling come over you and you think, or I do anyways, No I can’t possibly, I’m a grown up, I have to be responsible! Nope not true…. Just have to do something enough for that side to be happy that he/she had a rush. Say instead of stealing, (and sorry I have no idea what trouble you are referring to but this is just an example) , so go to a garage sale and get a whooper of a deal. Instead of just going for a walk, pick an apple off someone’s tree( it won’t hurt anyone to be missing ONE apple. Listen to bad music, look at some chilling pictures for that side. If you need more ideas, I have’em cause wow, didn’t know how strong this mood was till you brought it up, and thank you! One more thing though, when you can’t do something bad, Keep really busy. Dare yourself that this or that can’t possibly be done in that frame of time, Bad side will be happy, others will thank you for the great job u did, Make sense?
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Aug 12, 2008 at 04:02 AM
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Hi Pegasus,
It took me awhile to realize that ALL people feel just like we do, but sometimes it gets very extreme for us cos of the gaps and splits inside us. So, we are not weird or "all wrong". We all got naughty child parts that want to be bad and maybe want someone to put limits on us and keep us safe from ourselves. I can feel my naughty Pixie giggling in the back of my mind. She thinks shes SO radical, completely extreme! I like my bad pixie side, I just can't let her run my show or I'd be in some very uncomfortable situations. Sometimes its enough to just imagine all the stuff I'd like to do to bug the uptight people in my life. They aint never gonna squash me down, I won let em! So, there!!!    HEY SOMEDAY I'M GONNA RUN THE WHOLE SHOW. PHBLEWWW! THAT'S A RASPBERRY!!!! YEA ME!!! WHOO HOO!!! NOBODYS GONNA GET RID OF ME, EVER, EVER, EVER!!!!! __________________   HEALING HAPPENS
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Aug 12, 2008 at 07:37 AM
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I was never allowed to be naughty, so this is kind of a new thing really. __________________ Pegasus Got a quick question related to mental health or a treatment? Ask it here General Q&A Forum “Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by it's ability to climb a tree, it will live it's whole life believing that it is stupid.” - Albert Einstein |
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Aug 12, 2008 at 07:49 PM
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I left mine stuffies from the Doller Tree and little treats, and soon she decided she was not that naughty little girl but decided she was a very good, loved little girl.
I also left out white paper and color crayons so that she coudl color and communicate with me if she wanted too. __________________ I am a retired granny living on the washington coast. I am really into digital photograhy and full time caregiver for my husband who is diabled nam vet with parkinsons, heart disease and diabetes. I am cult survivor with mpd/did and have been in therapy for almost 30 years. |
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Aug 13, 2008 at 07:06 AM
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She had something to say and she said it, and we are ok now.
I think... __________________ Pegasus Got a quick question related to mental health or a treatment? Ask it here General Q&A Forum “Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by it's ability to climb a tree, it will live it's whole life believing that it is stupid.” - Albert Einstein |
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Aug 13, 2008 at 09:11 AM
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We all have something to say at times no? I'm glad she got the chance to have a voice....it's important to be heard  I hope you feel better too knowing that she could be heard and it was ok. sabby |
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Aug 13, 2008 at 09:14 AM
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Yes thank you!
Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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