[kimmydawn]

i dont like reading mad stuffs here and there is some. it makes me sad and stuff. what do i do so i dont see that when i want to see good stuff and then mad stuff is there? thats it. thank you.

shelley

Shelley,

I'm not sure if you are referring to content of posts that are upsetting to you or actual posters themselves.

Either way there are things you can do to protect yourself here. First you might check with others or the T to see if coming here is indeed something safe enough for you. It might not be a good idea so consider that one possibility.

By knowing what triggers or upsets you in posts you could then tell that to a few friends and PM them asking if they could preview posts or threads for potentially upsetting material.

You can also put individual posters on ignore. See

here for information on how to use that feature.

Hope this helps.

[(JD)]

yes zh I like the ignore option for certain "mad post" posters.

Try not to take posts to heart, sweetie, they aren't mad at you, OK?

[kimmydawn]

thanks for your responses, ozzie, reah, amy and zh!

shelley is a very happy girl who doesn't like for the preverbial apple cart to be upset.

thank you for being kind to her. i'm going to print out responses so that she can read them when ready.

be safe,

kd

[kimmydawn]

thank you for responding, sky. i'll print out your post as well.

i don't think she thought ppls were mad at her...she gets really upset by arguing or anything of that nature. i read some posts and it's fine now.

thanks again

kd

[(JD)]

Conflict upsets everyone in some way. sigh

[kimmydawn]

sky, i think it upsets most, but i truly believe there are those who feed from it

libra here and that's one thing i find true about signs and stuffs...we don't like the scales to be out of balance...one iota.

take care,

kd