[jopepsi]

i tried not to mess up so bad, but we wasnt successful, but we messed up good this time, i wanted to talk and tryed but just couldnt get the right words to say, its like all the alts trying to come out at one time well i guess they won again, i am just so tired of fighting thats why we messed up i know, anyway i may or may not be around for a while.

[Safron]

I'm so sorry you're having a hard time just now.
Rest, take care of yourself and come back soon.

[multipixie9]

hi jopepsi,

we did something similar last week on thursday and it scared us all and our spouse got very angry. i was sorry for some bad mistakes we made. but today is another day and we are doing an ok job of today and hope things will get better soon for you all.

we all make mistakes. maybe you will learn and grow from this situation. we learned that we have some programming we need to have help dismantling and replacing with truth and kindness. we will be ok. i believe you will be ok too, in some time. be kind to yourself today if at all possible. hugs to you if you want them,

leslie and pixies

[jopepsi]

Originally Posted by multipixie9

hi jopepsi,

we did something similar last week on thursday and it scared us all and our spouse got very angry. i was sorry for some bad mistakes we made. but today is another day and we are doing an ok job of today and hope things will get better soon for you all.

we all make mistakes. maybe you will learn and grow from this situation. we learned that we have some programming we need to have help dismantling and replacing with truth and kindness. we will be ok. i believe you will be ok too, in some time. be kind to yourself today if at all possible. hugs to you if you want them,

leslie and pixies

ty for the hugs yes hugs are fine as long as they virtual hugs and not direct contact.

[turquoisesea]

*sends more virtual hugs*

everyone makes mistakes, maybe you should think of your dealing with the alts not that "they won" , maybe you should try to work with them, and make it so everyone's working together, they don't have to be the enemy

[jopepsi]

Originally Posted by turquoisesea

*sends more virtual hugs*

everyone makes mistakes, maybe you should think of your dealing with the alts not that "they won" , maybe you should try to work with them, and make it so everyone's working together, they don't have to be the enemy

ty, im trying to learn how to work with and communicate with them but im having a hard time at doing this

[Hunny]

((((((((((((( Jopepsi ))))))))))))))

You will communicate better step by step...

[jopepsi]

Originally Posted by IceStatue

((((((((((((( Jopepsi ))))))))))))))

You will communicate better step by step...

ty for the hugs ((((ice))))

[Safron]

Meditation might help. Can be a little scary just sitting there but once you all get used to the idea it can be quite helpful. Keep a pad and pen by you and make notes if something isn’t quite clear. It will become clearer with time.

[jopepsi]

Originally Posted by Safron

Meditation might help. Can be a little scary just sitting there but once you all get used to the idea it can be quite helpful. Keep a pad and pen by you and make notes if something isn’t quite clear. It will become clearer with time.

thank you very much