[dsa1062]

Recently seperated from a four year live in. Part of me knew it should end, but now I am having great difficulty moving on. My adult daughter lives on her own and I don't like the bar/club scene. I want the comfort I had with my BF. I am so confused, he still wants the relationship but doesn't want to live together anymore. I am not willing to accept this. he won't go to counseling. I really need advice on how to move on and feel fulfilled again. I thought we were going to be together forever

[weanaa]

he wants to move because he wants an opportunity to have others over perhaps

[Rhiannonsmoon]

Hello dsa,

Welcome to pc. Maybe he doesn't want to see others so much as have his own space? Maybe the laws in your state give you half of everything after you have lived together for a certain amount of time and that is why he wants to keep it going but from seperate addresses. I'd be pushing to know why he wants this. Have you moved out already?

Maybe you should be having a heart to heart with him and then decide if you want to keep the relationship going, rather than just what he wants. I'll be honest if my partner said that to me I'd be rather hesitant. Relationships are a two way street not a one way.

Keep posting so that we can support you and offer comfort. You need support right now and it is important that you get that support, and advice so that you do not feel so alone and lost.