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Mar 21, 2011, 06:54 PM
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Sometimes I miss my ex. He was abusing me emotionally. I loved him and gave him so much. The happy person he seemed 2 be changed within a few months. I feel my heart will never completely heal/mend, We went out only 6 months.
I saw him mostly in my therapy groups. I dream of him almost every nite. He traumatized by abandoning me in an ice cold room. He did alot 2 me. Still I miss him. I miss the good times and laughs we had when we met  .
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Mar 25, 2011, 01:03 PM
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Hi Chris ~ I would think that after being emotionally abused, you'd want nothing to do with him!!
I've been emotionally abused, and that doesn't go away very quickly. At least it didn't for me. You might want to consider talking with a therapist to try to understand why you're still so attached to this guy. Anyone who still 'misses' a guy who has abused them, whether it's physical or emotional, needs to find out why ~ you certainly don't want to choose the same kind of guy the next time. Perhaps talking to someone will help you make better choices in the future. Best of luck and God bless!! Hugs, Lee 
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Mar 27, 2011, 02:42 PM
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Its because First Love never dies.. Thats the reason.. He is your first love.. whatsoever.
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Mar 31, 2011, 04:39 PM
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Chris - I'm sorry you're having a hard time.
 It's totally normal to miss the good times. I miss the good times I had with my ex. But I don't miss the terrible things he did to me and I would never want to endure anything like it again. I am worth so much more. I miss the good times. I miss the companionship. I miss having someone to help when I needed it, to take care of me when I'm sick. But I know I can have all those things again with someone who knows what I'm worth and will treat me accordingly.  Leed gave you some good advice on what to talk with a therapist about. For you and I both it's important that we look at the "why's" of the past so we don't repeat those mistakes with future relationships. You're gonna be ok. It's just going to take time. It really does heal. |
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Apr 08, 2011, 11:25 PM
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It's normal as your just grieving the loss of this person. I hope you find yourself in a better place today.
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