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Mar 07, 2011, 07:44 PM
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I told Dane to leave my house for the last time (please, g*d) yesterday.
I did sleep, although with difficulty, last night. Woke up glad that I didn't have to call him again. He did call today and I spent only five minutes talking with him. "Yes, I know it's hard, honey, but we have to do this..." ugh. also have another toothache, which is exaserbating my emotional pain. I called my insurance about finding AN OTHER, yes ANOTHER dentist, and because I am hurting so much, punched in the wrong number (my member number). But I am not calling him again for him to comfort me. I am standing firm. I will deal with this stupid pain and and I will not medicate it with him or with any more men. I am done with that. It's time to work on BILLI B.
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Mar 07, 2011, 09:07 PM
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Good for you Billie....you go girl!
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#3
Mar 08, 2011, 02:16 PM
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Good for you!! You know that MEN isn't the answer to your pain! And that one man won't fix what's wrong! God bless & take care. Hugs, Lee
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Mar 10, 2011, 09:02 PM
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Good for you! I know it's hard (divorced and live alone myself), so I know how hard it is to say no and really mean it, and really walk away.
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Mar 17, 2011, 10:00 AM
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 I know how hard this is. Good for you, sister. Reach out to friends and family when you need help standing firm. How are things going for you now? |
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Mar 21, 2011, 07:18 PM
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Quote:
 *Never Give Up*
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#7
Mar 21, 2011, 07:43 PM
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good luck darl
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Mar 23, 2011, 09:28 AM
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billi leli Your reality inspires me.You are strong and I hope I can be just half as powerfull as you are to be able to share how I feel and let go of the past and become myself again. I wont have fear if I have enough advice and pesonal experiences shared with me I appreciate your courage and dont stop fighting for less painfull days, there right around the corner.
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Sep 02, 2011, 12:59 PM
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thank you.
Finally bumping this thread again and reading it. I survived 3 nights without Dane. (finally going to do it; divorce) Billi
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