Message to my wife

So are you happy that all your snooping around has allowed you to figure out who I am here?

Do you really think that any of my posts are going to make me look bad during our divorce process?

I know more than you think I do, you act so smug, like you have something on me, I know all of my secretes, and yea you know most of them, but none of them are so bad, none that a judge will care about. One of the reasons we are divorcing is that I'm so much healthier than I used to be, no longer going to be your doormat.

And regardless of anything else divorce was your idea, yes I filed, but what did you think I was going to do? I knew you had a lawyer, it would be stupid for me not to get one, and me filing allowed me to end the suspense of waiting and to protect myself.

So congratulations, and have a nice day.

I wonder what she thinks she's going to accomplish by this? You certainly haven't said anything she can 'use."

I'm so sorry this is happening to you. You're such a nice guy. Just know that we're all behind you, regardless of what happens.

And I'm sorry for all the hurt -- I wish we could take it all away. But you're a STRONG man, and you'll get thru this. You're doing pretty darn well, from what I can see.

Take care Mike -- and know you're in my prayers!! (((Hugs))) Lee

((((Mike)))) I completely echo Lee.
You can handle anything that comes your way. We believe in you. You are a fine person and are handling yourself in the face of all of this with dignity & courage. You continue to think of the well being of others. You take the high road constantly.

You are consistent, reliable and a good, caring person.

Please stay strong in the face of adversity. Continue to maintain your composusure, take good care and remember you have a beautiful, good heart.

Your friend,
Rose

Mike, I know we don't interact 1:1, you might not even recognize my screen name, but, I've read many of your posts and replies and fully agree with Lee and Rose. You are all those good things mentioned, and I'd like to to you, for handling this entire situation with dignity and finnesse. You're doing a great job

hi Mike

agree with everyone up don't let things break you. you have been strong up till now and you should hang on for your sake and that of your kid.
lets us know how you feel.
take care

Don't know where you live, but most states now are "no fault" divorce, so not much can really be used against the other person in a divorce....it's usually just a matter of splitting everything up 50/50.

Sorry you are having these problems.....seems like this is the year & the time of year for divorces. Sure your lawyer will be a good help for you.

Yes I live in a "no fault" state, but even if we didn't it wouldn't matter, there is nothing in my personal life that is really bad, not recent history at least, and the things from the past well besides being the past none of them are so bad either.

And to Miss Snoopy Pants, thanks for getting our daughter the iPad... just shows how desperate you are, and you know how bad the truth looks (and not for me).