[brokenhrt52]

Hello... hurting so badly tonight...
my soon to be Ex-husband has been trying to contact me lately Totally giving me mixed signals...
He will hit me up via text, Facebook,
video chat I feel like I am so easily pulled back
And am getting so depressef sgsin because he'll
Reach out to me when it is convenient to him. ..
I heard from a joint friend that his family especially his daughter is not happy he is contacting me and giving him an ear full...
He is very passive and it is hard for him to stand up to his family. ..
I hate this feeling. ... I can't sleep or focus on anything now.... ??? Help.... thanks

It sounds like the social media is very triggering….and the texts. Turn off the phone. Block from FB, video chat, etc…make it so he can't contact you. xoxo

[brokenhrt52]

I blocked him from all social media now however on hangouts you still can receive a message even when they are blocked it is your choice whether you answer it or not...
I just don't understand how easy it is for him to just come in an out of my life. .. and it not mean anything to him he knows that I hurt over this and??? I just don't get it... But thank you very much for the support and advice I actually might be going into a eating disorder Clinic which treats depression too

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[kittlies]

Maybe it isn't easy for him. Maybe it is almost killing him to not have you around… but that doesn't mean it's healthy…

I say this because my ex-wife thought I was just breezing in and out of her life… when in reality I was barely surviving… I needed her so much that I kept fighting to have her in my life but then kept having to leave because the relationship was toxic. SHE wasn't toxic, our relationship was...

[brokenhrt52]

Kittles thanks for input...

>>>Maybe it isn't easy for him. Maybe it is almost killing him to not have you around… but that doesn't mean it's healthy…>>>>

>>>>I say this because my ex-wife thought I was just breezing in and out of her life… when in reality I was barely surviving… I needed her so much that I kept fighting to have her in my life but then kept having to leave because the relationship was toxic. SHE wasn't toxic, our relationship was...>>>>

I appreciate your input I was just curious to know if you left your wife without so much as a word....?
did you sneak out one day not return ...did you ignore any and all phone calls ...text messages... emails as to whether you were safe.... what was going on...???
Did you clean out the bank accounts leaving her broke and penniless unable to meet any kind of bills be able to buy food for children Exedra money that was hers in the account too in fact...?
Just curious? What were the circumstances and how did you leave? Did you have any kind as canceling or give her any kind of closure?

On several occasions my children tried calling him when I was very very ill in the hospital on deaths bed and he would not even pick up the phone they would leave him messages crying regarding the fact that the doctor said I might not make it and to please please please go see their mother (me) at the hospital because it might turn around my health condition around and make me so happy! Not once not once did he acknowledge my kids or show up to the hospital! I had even attempted on numerous occasions after hearing bad news from the doctor try calling him where he would never answer the phone asking him to please call me as I just came from the doctor and had heard some rather scary news regarding my health and I really needed to talk to him and he never ever ever ever responded ever! One time I was in an accident right down the street from his house I know he was at home because I had seen his vehicle's from a distance parked in the driveway and at that time he still had me on some service which would let me know where he was located anytime I would push on his contact! Long story short I was hurt I couldn't drive I even sent him pictures told him I was right down the street I needed help and he ignored everything I know he received the messages because when he would open them it would put a little check mark next to the message! Are you the same way towards your ex wife so cold and callous?
I'm not attacking I don't want you to think that for 1 second I'm just curious to see if you think that he really misses me and or our relationship ... or is it just to toxic even though I don't know what really went wrong without so much as a conversation...
Hope you're having a very very merry christmas
God bless!



Peace be with you!