[adam_k]

Today I discovered my wife has been sending naked pictures of herself to some guy she net online. This is the second time something like this has happened. I can't be with someone who isn't faithful and doesn't support me. There are other major issues but this is the one that I cannot cope with. I am laying in bed at the moment not sure what to do. After a series of angry text messages from me she has yet to even apologize or even show remorse. Maybe she is overwhelmed with guilt or maybe she has quite caring a long time ago.

I was angry today, then sad and now I feel empty. I fear when my emotions do return I won't be able to cope. I have a therapist appointment tomorrow. My first one with this lady. I feel as if a part of me is missing now. I feel alone and scared. I should be angry at her still, but I feel empty. Let's see what the next days have in store for me.

[optimize990h]

Sorry adam_k about how you are feeling today. It very difficult when you lose your trust in someone who is supposed to be close to, especially your partner.

[Bobbarita]

You are doing the right thing to see a therapist. I hope the "chemistry"needed between doctor and client turns out well for you. Hopefully you can schedule sessions every 2 weeks. You have other issues in your marriage besides the photos. Good luck, take breaks from thinking about it if you can. You deserve love, respect, faithfulness and trust in return when you give it.

[adam_k]

I think so. I found it easy to talk to her. I basically went into a little of everything with her and I didn't have much problems talking. I didn't feel bad or guilty afterwards either. After my dad died I talked to a school counsler and he gave me very little help. I basically told him my life story and he had no advice or ways to cope for me. He was just awful. I also had another therapist I saw twice and she would constantly try to cheer me up. I hated that. I didn't need a life couch, I need someone to teach me how to explore thought and emotions and deal with them. I think this lady is suited to that. She also said she has a lot of experience with depression which is good.

[avlady]

I have a great T, just saw her this morning, had a great talk. i find if i also listen to her it is a fun time so the whole session is not just me, but she is lettng me get to know her, we have become good friends, of which i cherish. most other T's i've had would never get into their stories but mine loves me as a good friend, I don't like dwelling only on myself and she brings me some good stories that relate to me about herself and others.I am pleased to have her as a T