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Feb 09, 2015, 11:17 PM
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Well another closed door to this chapter of my life. Yes the marriage was bad and he was very hurtful to me. If a marriage is really bad and you are hurt so bad, how can you still love this person. I guess it is just mixed emotions right now. How does a person put this behind them and move on? I knew when we signed I would feel this way and in my heart I know I am batter off. How do you just quick thinking about what you are going through and move on. I have to work tomorrow and all I want to do is stay home in my 4 walls. My safe zone. Please any advice.
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Just taking one day at a time. If this doesn't work I will go to taking an hour at a time  I think if I can work on getting out of denial, my life would be easier. |
 Deweycox79, LizzieVale, Mike_J, Pikku Myy, shezbut
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Feb 09, 2015, 11:27 PM
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Life happens
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Feb 11, 2015, 12:46 AM
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I a sorry about your divorce, it is a tough situation. Give yourself time to grieve and stay home for a day if that helps. I've never heard one person say they were happy when they signed divorce papers. It can be traumatic (((Hugs)))
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Feb 12, 2015, 11:17 PM
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I guess I am doing better. I have continued to work because I own my on business. I groom and board dogs. I guess the hardest thing is greeting clients like my world is all togther and it really is not. One more day and I have 3 days off. I want to just sleep but I bet that is not going to happen because I don't sleep good any way. But if I'm a sleep I don't know how I feel and that is a bit of peace of mind. I guess it will get better when we totally don't have to contact each other any more. I groomed his dogs yesterday, which they were out dogs and he gets mad because he has to pay. Then, I tried to take care of some of the stuff in the divorce papers and I can't do some of it because he still has my name on the bills at the house he is living in. I called and explained this to him that he needed to take care of this and he yells at me and is very ugly. This is reason I left anything can make him mad and it always got taken out on me. And my T Dr. Just says life is hard. I am about ready to tell him I can tell my self that for free. Lol Not really, I wouldn't tell him that. I just want to find A hole and crawl in it. Thanks for the comments. I'm just going to try and take one day at a time. Hopefully time will make me feel better.
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Feb 16, 2015, 11:26 PM
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I went and talked to my TDR. today and explained to him everything. He ask why is he so mean to you, I just dont know. he was happy we signed then divorce papers. he said i would have a happy future ahead of me now. i just hope i make it to that part of my life to be happy. Right now i feel like crap and dont know what to do.
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Just taking one day at a time. If this doesn't work I will go to taking an hour at a time I think if I can work on getting out of denial, my life would be easier. |
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