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Dec 18, 2015, 12:16 PM
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..as would be expected. I've been in an up and down, long term, long distance, relationship that's caused a lot of heartache as much as it's been wonderful, but there are some issues I'm just not sure I can cope with anymore.
I still love this man (I used the name Teddy but I'm a woman) and with all of the difficulties over the years I know he doesn't think it's over. We've stopped/started speaking over and over again. It's just so hard and I don't even know when I'd have the chance to see him again. It's very painful so I'm just feeling sad. I miss him. |
 Anonymous37780, Cat_Lover_58, Curry, Hazel eyes, ReddSkyes, Skeezyks
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Dec 19, 2015, 06:40 PM
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Dec 19, 2015, 08:26 PM
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Teddy15, i understand. The holidays makes it hard on a lot of people with the media pushing the family connection thing. Find something to do with others, or go to a church function or a pageant or play. Put your mind around the season and the things once a year and enjoy them. And the loneliness will pass. It is hard but you can do it. tc
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Dec 19, 2015, 09:36 PM
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Are the issues due to distance? As far as missing him, are there any plans to spend time together?
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Jan 28, 2016, 09:54 PM
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If you're not happy you can't make anyone else happy. Work on you first
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Feb 03, 2016, 07:35 PM
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My divorce is just going through the courts. I am just sad too. My friend lost his wife a year ago, and he is allowed to be just sad. Someone held his hand a year ago and told him he was going to be okay. I would really like someone to hold my hand and say I am going to be okay and I will do that for you.
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Feb 03, 2016, 11:13 PM
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(((Holding your hand))))
It will be ok. It is a grieving process. There's no timeline. No book on how-to. I divorced in '10. There does come a day, when looking back...I've come a long way. Sent from my LGMS323 using Tapatalk |
 continuosly blue, Curry
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Apr 03, 2016, 12:32 PM
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Long distance may be ok for a short time but definitely not in the long run. I don't know about you but I want someone to share my life with. Key word there being share. I want someone near me, not smothering me, but not so far away that I can never count on them.
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