[Blizz88]

Hello everyone! I am having some issues I would really like to discuss. My ex and I were together for 3 and a half years, and we split in January. After the breakup, we both made mistakes and decisions that we are not proud of. He ended up getting involved with another girl very soon after the break up. I was a mess. Eventually, he realized he wanted to get back together, but I was content with taking time for myself. SO he went back to her. Well, they broke up 2 weeks ago because he wasn't happy and says he is still in love with me. I never stopped loving him, but so much happened. He says he wants to get back together in time, and I think I do too. But I am so scared. So much trust and communication was lost the past months, and I am terrified to fall back into old habits. We have both grown and learned from our break up, and we are better off as individuals now for it. However, I am scared to let myself go again. I could use some advice and support because I am so worried now

[Skeezyks]

Hello Blizz88: Perhaps the best advise is the most obvious... if-&-when you two decide to get back together, or perhaps even before, participate in some couples counseling to ensure that you have the greatest chance of getting it right the second time around. Good luck to you both!

[healingme4me]

^^^ couldn't have said it better, myself