[Bottled_Emotions]

Hello all,

I am new to this and wanted to get other people's opinion on some issues I'm having in my marriage. First off I have been with my wife for 7 years now married 4 years of the 7. In the beginning everything was good for the most part I mean there were some things that I noticed but just kinda brushed off like her getting jealous about me talking to other women for example but just as like a friend nothing else but I thought well maybe that's just how she is or maybe she's just insecure about herself so I didn't really think anything about it. As time went on we fought about the littlest things and those turned into bigger things. She always has to control the situation no matter what. I have a son from a previous relationship and they always got along great she treated him as if he was her own up until we had a daughter together 2 years ago. Now she is always on his case about everything and blows little things out of proportion by yelling at him and punishing him even if I do not agree with it. She gets mad at me and yells at me for not agreeing with her even if I have a different opinion. So ever since my daughter has been born things have gotten worse. She is the type to always bring things up from the past that I have done and throw them in my face when we are fighting about something totally different she lets nothing go. I think that because of everything that I have been put through the past years that I am not in love with her anymore don't get me wrong I still love her and care about her probably always will because she is the mother of my child but I just don't feel the same about as I once did. I do not know what to do anymore I am not happy and haven't been for awhile. It has gotten so bad that I now take medication for seizures that I only have when we get into an argument. Can someone please give me some advice. Thanks.

[Skeezyks]

Hello Bottled_Emotions: The Skeezyks prefers to leave advice-giving to others. However, I see this is your first post here on PC. So... welcome to PsychCentral… from the Skeezyks! I hope you find the time you spend here to be of benefit.

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