I live next door to my widowed mom. My dad died of cancer in2008. They were going to retire at the farmette they had. The house i bought from them next door was a rental house they had. Ten years of marriage to woman who is very passive agressive and I stood up to her so she wanted out. I made it a point not to talk about my marriage to my mother. I tried to talk to my wife about problems I always was left feeling guilty or insulted. My mother and ex-tobe had a good relationship. She also had ten years to complain about me to my mom. When I told her about our divorce she looked at me and said Did u learn your lesson. Confused i walked away. A few days passed and I went over and asked what is the lesson I am supposed to learn. She said she couldn't remember. Christmas my ex visited my mom and sister who was here for christmas. My exto be has 2 bank accts without my name on them I payed all the bills out of a joint acct my check went too. We had another joint checking her check went into and i told them about it. I called over there my sister answered I told her u still want a relationship with her after what she done. I became disabled in sept so I had no income and she left. my sister said u better talk to mom than too. So I had no family support. I still do what I can for my mom but things have changed and we never really were close.So it just sucks.eyesclosed
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