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#1
Jan 07, 2022, 12:49 AM
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So it’s been a year now since my mom said for the first time she wanted to get divorced. My life crumbled back then, my parents have been together for 30 years. I’m 23. Covid has ruined it all… lockdown, problems with money, self esteem, everything. I don’t think my mom is thinking clear.
Every time they fight I feel like my life crumbles down. Maybe I’m dependant or something. I have BPD and major depressive disorder, which doesn’t help much huh. My mother asked my father today again, darkness filled my whole life and now I feel there’s no hope. I don’t know how to make it through the night. I feel miserable.
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With love, Interrupted girl 
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#2
Jan 07, 2022, 12:59 AM
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 I'm really sorry. |
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#3
Jan 07, 2022, 01:00 AM
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Do you think I’m going to make it through?
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With love, Interrupted girl
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#4
Jan 07, 2022, 01:02 AM
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Maybe your parents will be happier apart. I'd rather have parents who were happy apart than miserable together. |
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#5
Jan 07, 2022, 01:05 AM
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I think you will. Hang in there!
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Jan 07, 2022, 01:06 AM
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Thank you so much for your reply. I guess I’ll just need to get used to it and cope with my emotions and loneliness
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With love, Interrupted girl
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| Bill3, downandlonely, mytam
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#7
Jan 07, 2022, 02:18 AM
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Do you have anyone in real life you can talk to? Other than your parents?
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#8
Jan 08, 2022, 08:21 PM
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Hey @Interrupted Girl:
Are they for sure getting divorced or sort of throwing the word around/fighting about it? Has anyone taken formal action? Do you have a therapist?
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#9
Jan 08, 2022, 08:36 PM
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I am sorry. It’s not easy but I’d focus on building your own life separately from your parents. Even if your parents stayed married, at some point you’d have to start living your own life and filling your life with other things and people besides your parents. I recommend to see a therapist to help you cope with their divorce and address your loneliness.
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Mar 05, 2022, 12:16 AM
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With love, Interrupted girl
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#11
Mar 05, 2022, 12:17 AM
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No, but sometimes I wish they would. And i wish I could just run away from here and start over somewhere else.
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With love, Interrupted girl
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| Bill3
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