Husband Wants Divorce- Won't See or Talk To Me

I too am kind of in the same boat right now. My wife won’t even speak to me anymore about anything. She hasn’t even told me she wants a divorce yet, but I’m just sitting here waiting for the day trying to keep it all together. She is the main source of our income and kept me from working a high paying job all these years. I can’t eat, sleep, or even stand up without thinking about her anymore. It’s eating me up and I don’t know what to do about it either. My best friend is gone. 17 years together many good ones some bad, but I took my marriage vows very seriously and still do till the ring is off my finger. I do have a job but it’s not enough to live on really. I’m kind of thinking she kept it that way for a reason. I’m bearly making it through each day. Any suggestions as to how to move on or pass the time would be greatly appreciated. Things that have worked for others etc…..

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Originally Posted by Have Hope @ladyofmistakes what happened in your last fight, specifically, and specifically what mistakes have you made in the marriage? if you don't want to answer, that's Ok, but you mention that you've made quite a few mistakes and that your last fight was basically the end of it all for him. So what specifically went on or down in your marriage? Perhaps getting to the bottom of that will help to enlighten you more about his decision to end it.

I agree havehope.......to the OP.........if you've been married 16 years and have no children what have you been doing with all that time ?? You never worked at all ? You don't have any skills ?
You must have done something to really tee off your husband .
Also , you say he's your everything. NEVER put all your eggs in one basket. Sounds like you need to work on your self esteem and maybe learn a skill where you can have an income of some sort. I learned never to put my whole being into the hands of another person.
Good luck to you.......