Divorce #2

It’s still hard. Decided that after 7 years married and 9 together that it was time to end this. Long story short, I gave, her and her kids took. I made mistakes yes, plenty!
Things started going south after her mother died in a tragic accident four years ago.
Since that time, the lies, the disrespect, the not being able to hold a job, just all got worse. I deserve something better.
It’s in process, the lawyers, she’s out of the house.
But it’s still hard. I’m trying to learn to love myself and convince myself that I’m worth more than I’ve been getting these last three years or so.
Even though I wanted this and know it will be ok, it all still hurts. I guess I’m just looking for like minded people that can relate.. I don’t know
Thanks for reading my vent..

Hi 1966Ford,
I know how hard it must be. I recently ended a relationship with the 3rd mother of my children simply because she could not understand that I would not tolerate being treated horribly. And just like you said, the lies, not even a desire to have a job, on top of her putting me down and being verbally abusive just became too much. I know it hurts, I left 6 months ago and somedays it hurts so much my mind tries to convince me to run back. If you ever need to talk or vent feel free to PM me. The best thing you can do, is do things that you love and enjoy, discover your old passions, live your best life!

John