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Old Oct 14, 2008, 11:26 AM
mountainhigh mountainhigh is offline
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Earlier this year my wife admitted she had been having an affair for two years and wanted my forgiveness saying that she knew I was a good man.
I tried for a few months to forgive her and just could not get it out of my
head. I tried to get her to go to counseling many times and ended up going by myself. Our divorce after 23 years will be final tomorrow, 10/15. I'm having a hard time with the fact that she has indicated she's renewing her relationship with the other man. Any advice?

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Old Oct 14, 2008, 12:26 PM
Slothrop Slothrop is offline
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Wow, sorry that happened to you.

It will take time to emotionally accept her decision, but I think it is good to make as clean a break as you can and move on. Therapy for a while would definitely be useful. Hopefully this all will be for the best in the long run even though it hurts now.
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