Day 2

Hi Everyone:
How are you tonight , I really need some help with my post last night< Anyone feel like sharing there thoughts ?

My feeling is that when you are married even a perceived problem is a problem. If either partner is bothered by the behavior of the other it effects both and can't be ignored. With all the wonderfull oportunities on the internet, it's a drag that he has chosen this avenue and it will be a tough one to break because it's just a click away. Like any problem (addiction) it's difficult to deal with until he admits it exists.

I also think that if you don't have trust in a relationship there is not much to build on. There has got to be something the two of you can do together to replace the time he is spending on the net.

Thank you for your imput , the problem is that he spends almost (pretty close) every waking moment on the internet. He says its a game but to be honest , it down right pure sex , last night as usual I spyed because I thought we made some ground last Sunday , (when I set him up and I wound up being the person he met instead of the girl I made up) I found emails from him asking girls to get together with him and another to another girl that says I want to go to Florida to hang out with her , just give me dates and I will be there. I think your absolutley right it is an addition. But to be honest the mear touch of him creaps me out. I have said over and over that this is an issue and over & over he says I am not stopping. Again says, he 's not doing anything wrong. Well I read what he sends and believe me its pure sex and this is not a game. I think he thinks the grass is greener on the other side , but as we know it isn't. The problem is that his behavior is making me sick to my stomach because he does it right in my face. I just don't know if I can take anymore , I believe I would much rather be alone.......