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My boyfriend found out I've been skipping meals and I admitted that I knew I was doing it. He told me he'd start skipping time with me if I keep skipping more meals. I want to make him happy, I don't want to lie to him. I just don't want to stop what I'm doing, so I'll eat around him and that will be my meals. He won't let me get away with just a salad though so of course I'll have to feel like **** about myself.
I can't even manage to get through this yogurt. Am I really that bad of a person?
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Allie Diagnosed: Generalized Anxiety Disorder & Obsessive Compulsive Disoder. Previous: Borderline Personality Disorder. I no longer qualify for a diagnosis of Borderline Personality Disorder, but there will always be my borderline traits that I struggle with especially during times of great stress. I've been working passionately as a therapist since December 2016
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So is your boyfriend saying he'll skip too because he wants to discourage you from ED behaviour?
I think his heart is in the right place, but this isn't going to help you - the danger is you'll become more secretive in your behaviour. Sounds like maybe it's time to ask for some professional help. |
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He's saying he won't see me as much if I keep doing this. Yeah, I might discuss it with my therapist today but I'm just so ****ed up there's so much other stuff to work on. :/
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Allie Diagnosed: Generalized Anxiety Disorder & Obsessive Compulsive Disoder. Previous: Borderline Personality Disorder. I no longer qualify for a diagnosis of Borderline Personality Disorder, but there will always be my borderline traits that I struggle with especially during times of great stress. I've been working passionately as a therapist since December 2016
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