[Janey84]

I'm doing the same old stuff again. Its been 12 days since I've eaten, If I do its like an apple. I'm not anorexic,I wish I was. I'm overweight and ugly. When I do this I feel better.

[mary39]

please eat, if not for yourself then for the people who care about you, there are healthier ways to lose weight, starving yourself isn't one.

[Miss Laura]

Hey Janey84 Please eat. I too am overweight sorry make that OBESE and i am having to take drastic measures and i have had to join a gym.

I am OBESE and i am UGLY and I am DOING something about it. I joined the gym the other week and although i feel like i am out of my depths i am loving the gym. Forget all the cute skinny women there. I go in the morning when there is no-one there.

Please change the way you feel about yourself as i have lived like this for more than a decade. I have been so miserable and felt so ashamed that i was in denial. All my mates thought i looked ok but i didn't. They didn't want to hurt my feelings. I am now slowly but surely am getting to that point in life that i feel i needed a change.

Set yourself realistic goals. I didn't want to know how much i weighed etc as i would be fixated on lowering it. Instead i gave myself until May next year as its my parents 30th Wedding Anniversary. That's realistic and I CAN MAKE IT!!!

I want to be able to look nice in a dress and high heeled shoes as i have never worn them as i am too big. I am a size 16-18 in the UK which is a bit big.

Hope this helps and good luck Janey