What do i do?

A women I use to be friends with is claiming I am stalking her and I'm not. she has the neighbors involed and others watching me. neighbors are driving up and down the road and shining there headlights on my house. I am afraid to leave my yard and at times afraid to leave my house. what do i do

(((Fun4me84)))

Thank you for introducing yourself to us here at Psychcentral.

This is a great place to be for online support.

There are a number of forums that you are welcome to read or actively participate in if you feel comfortable.

You are in a bit of a difficult situation.

For starters, I would be notifying the police of this matter.

You may be able to get some professional input from them as to the best way forward.

Also, making them aware does assist you.

It sounds a little bit to me like your neighbours are being rather immature about this whole thing to be honest.

Driving up and down the road?

Shining their headlights into you house?

How old do they think they are?

3 years old in a preschool play ground?

They're running around in this playground because it has no fence.

So they've run off course.

Please put a fence up.

The fence is symbolic of your barrier.

This needs to possibly be communicated to them.

In fact, I would consider this type of behaviour a form of harrassment if it is indeed occuring.

The manner in which this inappropriate behavior is pointed out to them I think is best left to professional advice.

Please ask the police what they advise on this situation.

Their conduct is not acceptable.

Hang in there.

Call the Police when this kind of thing happen.

I think that this is necessary of contacting the police. If you can prove this, it should for sure be a harassment suit.

I believe that you should have evidence to support your call to the police such as text messages, facebook messages, twitter things, and photographs of these people going by your house. The more supportive things you have the better.