This really bothers me. Need advice

Last spring I broke up with this girl that I had really strong feelings for. She betrayed my trust and really hurt me. Today I was in a situation where I had to talk to her and she was really rude to me for no reason. It just really bothers me and I can't get my mind off of it. Im also unable to have feelings for other girls even though I'm over my ex. Is this normal what what should I do?

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Sometimes it takes longer than it feels like it should to get over someone. I hope you don't have to see her again any time soon

I agree this is normal to feel this way. She was disrespectful and rude. I suppose you could ask yourself if those are the qualities you want in a relationship. My guess is no. What if you were to think on what expetations do you expect from her and her behavior? It may very well be that you realise that this behavior of hers does not fit into those expectations and thus it might then follow that the emotional split moves towards closure.