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Old Mar 08, 2017, 07:32 PM
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See for those who think I've been negative these last few days concerning my looks I do think of other things. First let me apologize if this question is in the wrong section cause I'll be 100% honest most of those other forums I have 0 idea what they mean or stand for. But I will not apologize for my beliefs anyways that's not why I'm always worried. I recently got a few Credit Cards
in the last yr I'm very responsible when it comes to spending and paying them off but even though they always get the payment on time I still worry its gonna be late. How do I stop worrying so much?
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Old Mar 09, 2017, 12:35 AM
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Assuming you do everything you can to make sure the payments are received on time, it's unlikely you will be late. But if you are, what is the worst that could happen?
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Old Mar 09, 2017, 12:39 AM
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If you are making your payments on time, there is no need to worry.
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Old Mar 09, 2017, 12:44 AM
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Could you pay online so you get a confirmation number? Then you would KNOW it's been paid on time and maybe it would alleviate the worry.
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Old Mar 09, 2017, 06:15 AM
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If you are making your payments on time, there is no need to worry.
Hi I agree with you there are no need to worry.
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Old Mar 09, 2017, 08:02 AM
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Oh this is a worry I have. I have begun making my payment via e-transfers. I also call the card/utilities company to confirm they have posted payment. That way at most my anxiety lasts day.
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Old Mar 09, 2017, 12:33 PM
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And its weird cause its the first thing I do when I get money lol.
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Old Mar 09, 2017, 08:32 PM
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And its weird cause its the first thing I do when I get money lol.
Get a confirmation number when you pay. Or deliver the payment in person instead of mailing? Pay online so you get a confirmation #? Then you know it's been received and can stop worrying so much.

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Old Mar 09, 2017, 09:27 PM
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Paying online through your bank is good because you can choose the exact delivery date.

I can't tell you how many times I have missed a payment by accident or paid late and called them up, told them I just paid, and asked them to please remove the finance charge, and they did.
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