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Old May 19, 2018, 09:57 AM
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I feel like damaged goods because I was in foster care when I was younger, I was never abused physically or sexually, but emotionally big time. What if I never know how to accept love or give it? I’m always afraid CPS will take my future kids. Maybe a family, love, and happiness aren’t for me.
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Old May 19, 2018, 11:28 AM
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You are not damaged goods, feelings are not facts, believe in yourself.
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Old May 19, 2018, 06:57 PM
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Hello wantlove: I see this is your first post here on PC. So... welcome to PsychCentral! I hope you find the time you spend here to be of benefit. Your past need not define your future. Regardless of what happened to you in the past family, love & happiness can be in your future. Here are links to some articles, from PsychCentral's archives, on the subject of how to let go of past hurts:

https://psychcentral.com/blog/what-r...your-life-now/

https://psychcentral.com/blog/lettin...ful-over-time/

https://blogs.psychcentral.com/relat...-event-1-of-2/

https://blogs.psychcentral.com/relat...dium=popular17

https://psychcentral.com/blog/how-to...nful-emotions/

https://psychcentral.com/blog/why-do...l-in-the-past/

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Old May 20, 2018, 03:24 PM
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You are not damaged goods. You are worthy of love and you are worthy of a family. I am adopted, so I can kind of relate.

Are you in therapy or have you considered if therapy might be helpful for you?
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Old May 24, 2018, 09:46 AM
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You are not damaged good. You are just hurt emotionally. You probably suffer from unresolved issues as well. You may want answers about something. Try read the Bible daily and praying about your unresolved emotions to see if you'll feel any kind of relief.
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