Home Menu

Menu


Reply
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #26  
Old Feb 19, 2019, 09:38 PM
Anonymous40127
Guest
 
Posts: n/a
Quote:
Originally Posted by Cold Soul View Post
To me, the answer is NO. Life is not worth living. It's full of suffering. Some people see it, others understandably deny it because our brain has evolved to encourage survival by playing tricks and illusions.

If I had the choice, I wouldn't choose to come to this life. It was imposed on me. For this I blame my parents who were selfish to have me, and now that I am suffering with depression and struggling in life, they have abandoned me, and it's all my fault.

I think what is frightening about suicide is not death, but the associated pain. At least this what scares me. If there was a medically-assisted suicide option that is supervised by medical professionals to ensure pain-free death, I would choose it.

Disclaimer: I don't encourage suicide, but for me I would rather die than living.
I think like that too! If I was sure to not go in coma/wake up later with disabilities/go blind/deaf etc. after attempting suicide and then survive anyway, or to be dead without much suffering and consequences, I'd surely die...

But hey, since that's not possible, we should try our best (obviously not easy but a classic advice regardless) and try to make our life fulfilling.

advertisement
  #27  
Old Feb 19, 2019, 10:14 PM
Anonymous42831
Guest
 
Posts: n/a
Quote:
Originally Posted by TheLonelyChemist View Post
I think like that too! If I was sure to not go in coma/wake up later with disabilities/go blind/deaf etc. after attempting suicide and then survive anyway, or to be dead without much suffering and consequences, I'd surely die...

But hey, since that's not possible, we should try our best (obviously not easy but a classic advice regardless) and try to make our life fulfilling.
Some people cannot make their lives fulfilling. Some people live in constant pain. I know it's controversial in most countries to even allow the terminally ill people decide to die under the supervision of medical staff, but I think in some Scandinavian countries you can decide to be evaluated by professionals to help you to die pain-free if you are severely depressed for example. After all, it's their own lives, I don't know why it's controversial.
Hugs from:
Anonymous40127
  #28  
Old Feb 19, 2019, 10:58 PM
Anonymous40127
Guest
 
Posts: n/a
Quote:
Originally Posted by Cold Soul View Post


Some people cannot make their lives fulfilling. Some people live in constant pain. I know it's controversial in most countries to even allow the terminally ill people decide to die under the supervision of medical staff, but I think in some Scandinavian countries you can decide to be evaluated by professionals to help you to die pain-free if you are severely depressed for example. After all, it's their own lives, I don't know why it's controversial.
I am in constant pain too. I am trying to make a hell of living by becoming a medical scientist or at least making trying to become one. For me, science is a way of living life, which includes all of its beautiful branches like medicine and applied biotechnology. I distract myself by telling myself, "You've got to do something, you were born for this." I don't care if it's a lie (which it probably isn't), but at least I can succeed....

You've got to find your purpose.
  #29  
Old Feb 20, 2019, 06:44 AM
MoxieDoxie's Avatar
MoxieDoxie MoxieDoxie is offline
Magnate
 
Member Since: Jul 2013
Location: United States
Posts: 2,741
I want to die everyday but if I was offered legally to take a pill that would end my life immediately I am not sure I would take it. There were plenty of times in my past I would have grabbed that pill out of their hands and popped it quickly into my mouth. Right now even though I am in pain and mentally suffering I am still making it through the day and getting things done.

It would be very comforting to know it was there as an option if I could not take this life anymore. That kind of takes pressure off.
__________________
When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
Hugs from:
Anonymous40127
Reply
Views: 2562

attentionThis is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.




All times are GMT -5. The time now is 08:11 PM.
Powered by vBulletin® — Copyright © 2000 - 2025, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.




 

My Support Forums

My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.

 

Helplines and Lifelines

The material on this site is for informational purposes only, and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis or treatment provided by a qualified health care provider.

Always consult your doctor or mental health professional before trying anything you read here.