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Jan 25, 2011, 10:44 PM
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AJ strolls down to make his protein drink and I mention there isn't ice and he flips out. He says can't you do anything for me. Little things that I like, for instance making ice for me, He said can't you even do that, keep ice made...
He then said he was at his friends, same age he is, living at home, and the friend's mom said he could not go to the gym until he ate dinner. Then AJ said that is a normal mother. I said well if I told you you could not go to the gym bef ore you ate you'd say FU or call me a b**ch and walk out... He started to flip out I walked away....... I could not help myself. Should have bit my tongue and said nothing. BUt anything I say to AJ he'd say "you treat me like a child" .. cusses at me... whatever... I don't mind him saying i am a bad mom.. I know I'm not a bad mom.. Only way I am a bad mom is that he has gotten away with his "attitude" with me for too long.. If he wants stupid ice, then make it himself.... Guess I am not a normal mom... shrugs shoulders lol |
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Jan 26, 2011, 06:05 AM
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it sounds like he actually wants dicipline..but than hates it when it comes his way
it amazes me how kids are...even to this day i am scared to death of my mom (she has passed) but i never cussed at her i would be too scared what she would do to me even if i tried it out. i would go over to my friends house and she would fight with her mom..i rememebr the first time i heard it my jaw dropped and was afraid what was going to happe....nothing of course! how do kids get away with it i will never know my family household was not perfect and a lot of trauma and heartache went on but i did grow up to respect elders wheather they were in the wrong or right. lol i'm a smart a@@ and would have said then go live with your 'normal mother' see how long she will put up with your crap |
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Jan 26, 2011, 06:18 AM
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Hello, radio_flyer. Yes, a thirty year old should be able to look after the ice. If he does not want to be treated as a child, he should stop acting like one.
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Jan 26, 2011, 12:50 PM
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Jan 26, 2011, 04:30 PM
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Jan 26, 2011, 04:40 PM
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racee... actually I thought of saying go live with the normal mother and see if see serves you after she seesyour temper tantrums, or you cuss at her, but he left before I had time to say it lol..... Actually, he isn't a kid, he is well umm ummmmm oh dear, ummm he is 30..
Geesh, being scared of your mom, I am sorry to hear that.. AM sorry you had a "traumatic" childhood... I had a great childhood and it is very sad when children are hurt growing up or encounter trauma or are frightened.. Oh, AJ doesn't blow up at other "people".. Guess he does blow around his close friends, but I seem to be the one that gets the blasts from his anger. He respects others... Just seems to be me he vents at... huggs |
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Jan 26, 2011, 04:44 PM
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Have to agree with you Byz... The ice thing was uncalled for.. I don't use the ice and well I don't think to make it...
OO He went to the store for milk. He was wearing shorts so I told him to make sure he changed to long pants because it is snowing. He said, duhhhhhh, you think I am stupid. I said I am just trying to be that "normal mother"... He did not say a word.. 
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Jan 26, 2011, 04:49 PM
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Kikki..... he is an "adult brat" sometimes.... He is cooking dinner today. Making fish n rice n veggies... When he was growing up I always made "the family" breakfast and dinner and we all ate together.... Thinking he may seen at his friend's house what he wants still today... family dinners?
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