I felt like saying this , like who the hell do certain people think they are, because of their intelligence, position, knowledge, spiritual power, etc etc to pass an opinion on others. If its actually your job to do that, then do it, with humility and as a servant (ie, carer, social worker). If you chose your vocation you chose it, dont expect others to follow suit. If you believe in spirituality in a particular context, then respect others rights too. otherwise take your expertise and you know where to put it.
Perhaps Utopia is boring, everyone wants a better world not a perfect one. Can't be bothered with it sometimes

mala