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Old Aug 14, 2012, 09:28 AM
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... if it was meant to be ... I want a second opinion.
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Old Aug 14, 2012, 09:41 AM
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To re-acquire the information i lost when I put my notepad into the laundry with my workpants
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Old Aug 14, 2012, 11:25 AM
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today I will tell myself one step at a time.
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Old Aug 14, 2012, 12:30 PM
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Be as honest with myse
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Old Aug 14, 2012, 12:40 PM
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You're doing ok. Try not to be so hard on yourself.
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Old Aug 14, 2012, 01:14 PM
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Today I will tell myself that I'm lucky to have all that i do.
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things we don't want to know,
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and people whom we can't live without,
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Old Aug 14, 2012, 06:19 PM
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today i will tell myself stay calm. the work place won't change, we wont stop complaining and just again say you're tired of listening to the complaints over and over. i need to have more faith in myself to leave. he needs more faith in himself as well but i need to work on my own. i can encourage him but i need to work on my own.
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Old Aug 15, 2012, 12:56 PM
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Work on empathy.
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Old Aug 16, 2012, 08:24 AM
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Stop the mental whining, and count my blessings.
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Old Aug 16, 2012, 11:08 PM
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Same as the other day. Be honest with myself. If sometimes the crap looks as if it might hit the fan then realize that it bloody well might. Recognize and acknowledge the reality of the situation and hopefully avoid the consequences.

I haven't taken this advice many many times. Taking it MUST produce something other than what I'm so used to.

I dunno...that makes SOME[?] sense. Probably just lip service to myself but I'll try to spend at least a little more time considering choices and likely outcomes. Maybe longer truthful contemplation will stall or avoid some of the aforementioned crap.
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Old Aug 16, 2012, 11:12 PM
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I'm going to count mine too Nicks. Thanks.
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Old Aug 17, 2012, 07:48 AM
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It's Friday!!
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Old Aug 17, 2012, 02:40 PM
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To close the drapes to hide the clouds and put in a favourite movie.
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Old Aug 17, 2012, 09:49 PM
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Quit drifting and chart your course.
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Old Aug 18, 2012, 01:41 AM
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Today i will tell myself-- break time is needed-- take a breath.... reanalyze some thoughts- come back down (or up) to the middle area-... just because there was a slip today it is going to happen-- Don't expect everything to happen at once.
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Old Aug 18, 2012, 01:58 AM
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.... tales untold.
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Old Aug 18, 2012, 07:48 AM
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...absolutely nothing! I am taking the day off.
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Old Aug 18, 2012, 09:25 PM
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Today went pretty good, can I get tomorrow too and make it a winning streak?
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Old Aug 18, 2012, 09:31 PM
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It is ok to have an opinion. And every opinion is not necessarily a "trigger"...and it is NOT acceptable to use someone's struggles against them...because then we become inhuman in the other person's eyes - incapable of forming a coherant thought or speaking a rational word. It is extraordinarily invalidating, insensitive and cruel. And totally unacceptable.

No wonder people that struggle with mi feel so stigmatized and shamed.
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Old Aug 18, 2012, 11:52 PM
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To remain confident and try to stay balanced. Remember to see things from other's point of view, and make sure what I try to do for them is really what they want, instead of just assuming.
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Old Aug 19, 2012, 12:01 AM
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it is ok now for all to give up and stop!!!
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Old Aug 20, 2012, 04:31 PM
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Today-- I will tell myself, I don't have to get it all done at once--

i seem to keep on forgetting that....
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Old Aug 20, 2012, 06:21 PM
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To have a good laugh and forget the world for a little while.
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Old Aug 21, 2012, 06:46 PM
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Don't believe everything you think.
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Old Aug 22, 2012, 04:05 AM
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Keep busy at work and the day will go faster.
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