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#801
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... if it was meant to be ... I want a second opinion.
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![]() Cotton ball, kindachaotic
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![]() beauflow, Cotton ball, kindachaotic
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#802
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To re-acquire the information i lost when I put my notepad into the laundry with my workpants
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![]() beauflow, kindachaotic
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#803
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today I will tell myself one step at a time.
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![]() beauflow, Nicks_Nose
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![]() beauflow, Cotton ball
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#805
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You're doing ok. Try not to be so hard on yourself.
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![]() beauflow, Nicks_Nose
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#806
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Today I will tell myself that I'm lucky to have all that i do.
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"There are things we don't want to happen but have to accept, things we don't want to know, but have to learn, and people whom we can't live without, but have to let go." |
![]() beauflow, Nicks_Nose
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![]() beauflow, Cotton ball, Nicks_Nose
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#807
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today i will tell myself stay calm. the work place won't change, we wont stop complaining and just again say you're tired of listening to the complaints over and over. i need to have more faith in myself to leave. he needs more faith in himself as well but i need to work on my own. i can encourage him but i need to work on my own.
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![]() Cotton ball, Nicks_Nose
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#808
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Work on empathy.
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![]() beauflow, kindachaotic, Nicks_Nose
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#809
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Stop the mental whining, and count my blessings.
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#810
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Same as the other day. Be honest with myself. If sometimes the crap looks as if it might hit the fan then realize that it bloody well might. Recognize and acknowledge the reality of the situation and hopefully avoid the consequences.
I haven't taken this advice many many times. Taking it MUST produce something other than what I'm so used to. I dunno...that makes SOME[?] sense. Probably just lip service to myself but I'll try to spend at least a little more time considering choices and likely outcomes. Maybe longer truthful contemplation will stall or avoid some of the aforementioned crap. |
![]() beauflow, kindachaotic, Nicks_Nose
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#813
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To close the drapes to hide the clouds and put in a favourite movie.
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![]() beauflow, IowaFarmGal
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#814
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Quit drifting and chart your course.
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#815
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Today i will tell myself-- break time is needed-- take a breath.... reanalyze some thoughts- come back down (or up) to the middle area-... just because there was a slip today it is going to happen-- Don't expect everything to happen at once.
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![]() "A laugh is worth a hundred groans in any market." Charles Lamb
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![]() dailyhealing, IowaFarmGal
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#816
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.... tales untold.
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![]() beauflow, kindachaotic
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#817
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...absolutely nothing! I am taking the day off.
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![]() beauflow, IowaFarmGal
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#818
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Today went pretty good, can I get tomorrow too and make it a winning streak?
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![]() beauflow, Nicks_Nose
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#819
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It is ok to have an opinion. And every opinion is not necessarily a "trigger"...and it is NOT acceptable to use someone's struggles against them...because then we become inhuman in the other person's eyes - incapable of forming a coherant thought or speaking a rational word. It is extraordinarily invalidating, insensitive and cruel. And totally unacceptable.
No wonder people that struggle with mi feel so stigmatized and shamed. |
![]() beauflow, Nicks_Nose
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#820
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To remain confident and try to stay balanced. Remember to see things from other's point of view, and make sure what I try to do for them is really what they want, instead of just assuming.
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![]() beauflow, Nicks_Nose
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#821
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it is ok now for all to give up and stop!!!
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![]() beauflow, IowaFarmGal, Nicks_Nose
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#822
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Today-- I will tell myself, I don't have to get it all done at once--
i seem to keep on forgetting that....
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![]() "A laugh is worth a hundred groans in any market." Charles Lamb
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![]() IowaFarmGal, Nicks_Nose
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#823
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To have a good laugh and forget the world for a little while.
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![]() beauflow, IowaFarmGal
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#824
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Don't believe everything you think.
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![]() beauflow, kindachaotic, Nicks_Nose
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![]() beauflow, Fresia, kindachaotic, Nicks_Nose
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#825
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Keep busy at work and the day will go faster.
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![]() beauflow, IowaFarmGal
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![]() beauflow, IowaFarmGal
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