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#1
Feb 18, 2012, 02:49 AM
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Well. I don't remember exactly but it must be at least 3. I have never had GF so far, as well.
First one when I was 13. Second one was like I was 16 or so. Last one 3-4 months ago, when I was 18. |
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Feb 18, 2012, 03:11 AM
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Hmm...well, I have a bit of trouble working up the courage to ask, so it's not often.
 Sure glad I asked the woman I'm dating now though...  Let's see here...if memory serves, twice. Once was only a crush in elementary school, but one girl whom I had a HUGE crush for turned me down from middle school up to high school. So not all that much, but then again, it's rare for me to ask unless I feel strongly (or it's elementary school ).
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The world suffers alot. Not because of the violence of bad people, but because of the silence of good people.- Napoleon Bonaparte |
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#3
Feb 18, 2012, 09:47 AM
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Are we talking about sex or the possibility of a relationship?
In terms of relationships i can recall a few times...once a guy said no because he was seeing someone else and conveniantly forgot to tell me although not whilst he was leading me on  and there was another time when i fell head over heals for a girl who i imagine i probably still would have been with now but sadly she felt ashamed of herself and didn't want her family to find out she was attracted to women if things went further between us...oh and then there was the girl who was ok being with me so long as i was ok disappearing whenever her friends/family popper over. Not sure if she was just ashamed of me or her sexuality but either way that was another relationship which ended before i would have liked...
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| Erti
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#4
Feb 18, 2012, 12:09 PM
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I had some disappointments in high school with the love interests. I had some casual sex my jr and sr year that was wonderful, I didn't get hurt and neither did they. It was good clean fun. College i feel in puppy love. That ended like puppy love always ends. My wife choose me, mostly. She clubbed me over the head and medicated me so we got married, mostly
I love her and I'm very fortunate and gratedful. singles, keep your heads up! or try.
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| Erti
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#5
Feb 18, 2012, 10:11 PM
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I've been more turned down by girls then by guys...I usually turn down guys.
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| Erti
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#6
Feb 22, 2012, 05:42 AM
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Hiya - I would say I get rebuffed a lot. It has affected my confidence. The only 2 long term relationships I had were as a result of me being a friend with these women for a long time first. I had a 'good run' (sounds crass, sorry) in my mid 20s for a bit, but over the last year or 2 my rejection rate is high. I definitely get turned down a LOT. Queue the sound of violins drowning out my barely audible sob....
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| Anonymous32511, Erti
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#7
Feb 22, 2012, 05:58 AM
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Ish but not to my face... more so they start to avoid me.
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#8
Feb 22, 2012, 11:22 AM
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Yes, I have been turned down many times. Even so, I can say being turned down has been a better experience than the angst incurred attempting to maintain relationships never meant to be.
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| Erti
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#9
Feb 22, 2012, 03:20 PM
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Once was enough for me
When I was 13 I was turned down now I'm 21 |
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Feb 23, 2012, 02:11 AM
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I've been turned down more often than not.
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